i really like this guy but i just don't know how to approach him! I've talked to him a couple times and we've laughed and stuff but i feel like i'm the one going up to him every time. It's like wouldn't he get a clue by now?My friend says he seems shy w/ girls and i kinda agree but i just CAN'T TELL!!!So now i don't even know what to do b/c i'm either just gonna move on or try one more time to talk to him and get a real conversation going.But i need some advice on how to.So HELP. I need advice on how agressive i should be or if i should give up or not or if i should wait and let him approach me idk just help me w/ what i should do!!!
2007-03-02 13:45:41 · 9 answers · asked by Toria 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
keep talking to him he will eventually start feeling comfortable around you. shy people take a while to come out of their shell to people.
Just ask him out to the movies or something. from there talk about other things like hobbies, tv, books, music, etc. don't give up if you really like this guy you never know he could like you back.
2007-03-02 13:51:15 · answer #1 · answered by jack 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, it does sound like he is shy but you cant tell until you watch how he is around other women. if he is shy around them too then yes he is shy and you are going to have to make the move. don't be afraid to ask the guy out, there is NOTHING wrong with it. some guys are just unable to get the nerve up. try talking to him one more and mention something like a movie that you want to see or things you like to do and hint at your schedule for the next week. "i only have 2 days off next week wed and sat, i might go see that movie 300 but i dont like to go alone" something like that. You have to give this guy the obvious opening or ask him outright. if you dont do either thing and he is shy then you might as well move on. and as a side note. if you are looking for a "bad boy" then i hope you like getting drugged, drunk, cheated on and pregnant because thats all those relationships with bad boys end as.
2007-03-02 21:51:59 · answer #2 · answered by U.S MARINE GREG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't get hints!! Be assertive!! Don't wait for him to approach you! Approach him, and if he is still not getting the hint then he isn't worth it! Move on and he'll realize he was a jackass
2007-03-02 21:50:44 · answer #3 · answered by Mimi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt with him, if you already do, try a little bit more. try to hint it to him like touch him kinda, tell him how you feel about him.
2007-03-02 21:49:20 · answer #4 · answered by chesterB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out for a lunch "date" and start getting to know each other. You will find out...
2007-03-02 21:49:28 · answer #5 · answered by Rolly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and tell him
2007-03-02 21:48:42 · answer #6 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the boy you like him
2007-03-02 21:49:24 · answer #7 · answered by esile619 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he is shy then you need to be his friend first
2007-03-02 21:51:24 · answer #8 · answered by juli s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK HIM HOW HE FEELS ABOUT YOU !!!! IT IS THAT SIMPLE !!!
2007-03-02 21:49:49 · answer #9 · answered by HOT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋