I like this guy who i think is really hot. and i told my friend and she automaticly assusuming i asked him out. but i didnt. the first thing she said ewwwwwww!!!!but isnt that matter of opinion??? and the the same day she asked a guy out and got turned down. so do u really think she should be talking. and i think that guy she asked out is discusting but i didnt say anything. so do u think she really should be talking???? and this guy i dont talk 2 more or less just admire from affar. so now i worried that she will say something. so my question is. how do i prevent her from saying something??? Do u think she should be talking?? and do u have any overall suggestion?
2007-03-02 13:41:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i no this sounds very junior high but im in the 8th grade and im not the only person who thinks hes hot my 2 bff also agree with me
2007-03-02 13:42:45 · update #1
I think you are too young to be worrying about all of this....I have daughters in 5th grade,7th grade and 9th grade...My9th grader is the only one dating at this point but she is a straight A student and I will tell you what I tell her........ Do not care what other people think...be your own person.....do not follow what your friends say or do be unique.....Who cares if your friend does not think this guy is cute...No two people will ever like the same things so it does not matter what any of your BFF's think.....it only matters what you think....
that being said....Politely tell your friend that you like him and tell her to butt out! if she does not then she is not a friend to you...
2007-03-02 13:48:20 · answer #1 · answered by Jenny T 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you don't want to set your whole life on a 90 mph path of self-destruction then concentrate on your schoolwork and nothing but that. There'll be plenty of time when you're older to worry about guys and trust me, you'll spend more time trying to get rid of them than chasing them so relax now.
If your friend wants to look like a complete idiot chasing guys around then fine, let her. You don't have to be a fool just because she is.
2007-03-02 21:50:48 · answer #2 · answered by WhooHoo! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all no she shouldnt be talking, even if her bf's were adonis's she shouldnt shes your friend and even if she wasnt its none of her business.
Second you should just confront her. Tell her that you want her to stop talking about ur relationships and stuff. and if she starts getting an attitude about it let her know that shes your friend and she shouldnt have such a problem with such a small change.
2007-03-02 21:44:08 · answer #3 · answered by not me but you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him before she does. If anything he will be flattered that a girl came up to him. As far as your friend not liking him that is ok. You and your friend have different taste in guys. Which is a good thing.
2007-03-02 21:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by velmicro 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well she propbably just said 'ewwww" to make her self feel better. She's more than likely really jelous of you or she likes him herself and isn't confident enough to talk to him. don't worry about it for now. if she still brings it up she's probably not a very good friend to be around. hope this helps. =]]
2007-03-02 21:48:52 · answer #5 · answered by BigPoppa32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and tell him
2007-03-02 21:44:34 · answer #6 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋