how do you prefer a guy to ask you out...or what is the best way for a guy to ask out a lady in your opinion??... Do you prefer to ask you out on a date and dinner or intorduction and then tag along or what and another thing........ recently I saw this girl that I knew and my heart just stopped right where it was and it was like a hard pounding good feeling that really got a hold of me.... I know her from school some years back and really wanna talk to her but what would be the best way in your case help..
2007-03-02 13:39:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Personally, I like the man to just ask me out. Go for dinner and a movie or some other event. Just be straight up and ask.
2007-03-02 13:43:04 · answer #1 · answered by goldensparkler61 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a women's perspective, if you wanted to ask me out on a date, I would preferred an introduction. Meaning, some sort of small talk. First introduce yourself, and ask for her name. Second, make some sort of small talk or say something nice about what originally attracted you to talk to her (be honest, unique, and sincere). Third, ask her if she would be interested in having a nice conversation over dinner. My best advice would be once you are out on the date with her, always be honest, explain your intensions, talk about both your interests (get to know her better). You could also bring her flowers when you meet on the first date to show her that you are a sweet guy. Then, just play it by ear, and if the evening ends well, ask her for another date and her phone number.
Girls like romance and sincerity. Meaning, she wants to know that the guy is serious about getting to know her as a person, and not just trying to get in bed with her. Girls like to have conversations. Always look into her eyes so that she knows that you are listening to her, and then always have a response to what is being talked about in the conversation.
Remember, if you do ask her out, be yourself and try to relax.
Good luck
2007-03-02 13:52:55 · answer #2 · answered by Q-T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out, get to know her alone, not with all of her friends around. After a few dates, then you guys can hang with other people. Call her, pick her up, open her door, hold her hand and be a gentleman. Girls like the human touch.
Be polite when you ask her out. That is very important.
2007-03-02 13:43:46 · answer #3 · answered by Katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you knew this girl from school, theres your introduction. Simply go up to her and say hey I remember you from school. How have you been? Take it from there. Start with small talk and then lead up to asking her to have coffee and take it from there. Work your Charm. Listen to what she has to say, and ask questions. Women like a man that communicates with them through their mind before their bodys.. Good Luck
2007-03-02 13:44:47 · answer #4 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you gotta be smooth ladies wanna hear thins like this : whats up ma how was your day? whats on your mind? u wanna go out and chill and talk about a few things. share thoughts feelings and whatever comes to your mind. a lady likes a strong man who is polite and not rude and all street like i mean some women like it but i dont. but hey good luck
2007-03-02 13:44:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in a romantic way is best. be creative and original. serenade her. send her anonymous cards, flowers, and candy. a date and dinner would be good. somewhere fun and exciting but also not too loud.
make sure that you don't like her just for her looks. get to know her before you make your move. good luck! :)
2007-03-02 13:45:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask her out to lunch, tell her you wanna do some catch up. then take her out again, maybe with a couple of friends. if you play it right, i don't think you'll need to tell her how you feel. she should be able to see how you feel. if she doesn't, just tell her.
2007-03-02 13:50:28 · answer #7 · answered by Samora 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
approach the girl,say hi.. make a conversation and be sure she do not have a boyfriend before asking her out..
2007-03-02 13:43:16 · answer #8 · answered by heartbeats_tin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask
2007-03-02 13:41:22 · answer #9 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself and ask her that might be your chance
2007-03-02 13:45:19 · answer #10 · answered by BJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋