Seriously, it doesn't make sense...
2007-03-02 13:31:12 · 24 answers · asked by quickresponseteam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think the nice guys probably win in the end. They'll probably have the happier life as long as they don't keep worrying about stupid things.
2007-03-02 13:35:38 · answer #1 · answered by MJ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most guys are interested in having the big O, they are not paying much attention to what their partner is experiancing. Often by the time they have finished, the girl was just getting started. A nice guy wants to satisfy his Lady, and sees to it that she is finished before he does. Not easy for a young man to do
2007-03-02 13:40:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be nice without being a wimp. You don't have to take my word for it: you can keep failing in your dating life, never figure out the only problem is that you are afraid of rejection and try too hard to please them and forget about your own needs, wind up marrying a woman with a bad attitude who doesn't find you half as interesting as she pretends to find you, get nagged to near death, and maybe if you're really lucky... have a couple of kids before she dumps you to run off with some biker who spends your child support checks.
You have to respect yourself, or you're going to turn into a doormat, and people wipe their feet on those and replace them often.
2007-03-02 13:38:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because there is such thing as "too nice." In other words, if you're too nice to a girl, she will cringe because even though she says she wants to meet a nice guy... often times she won't be attracted to a nice guy. She really wants a "bad boy" who will treat her well.
If you are "too nice" it makes her feel like you want something from her, which will make her feel uncomfortable. Just think about the cool guy in the movies haning back, acting like he doesn't care what happens... he's not trying to get her to like him, and because he's not trying too hard... he gets the girl
2007-03-02 13:36:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do guys think this way? They don't finish last....they are the good ones we are looking for. Sometimes, the good guys and the good girls just aren't hooking up with the right people. Keep looking, you'll find her! Gotta go thru alot of frogettes to find the princess!
2007-03-02 13:36:38 · answer #5 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it might seem that way but believe me. From personal experience being a nice guy I do very well. Never compromise what makes you a nice guy. Women look for us and when they find us you will be up to your neck in them :)
2007-03-02 13:36:01 · answer #6 · answered by John J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your question doesn't make sense.
Nice guys do very well when it comes to dating!!! I'm lovely and as a result I've been lucky to have had lots of lovely girlfriends.
Unfortunately there's more to being desirable than just being nice.
You can be as nice as you want, but for example, if you smell, you're in a bit of trouble... You get me?!
2007-03-02 13:39:56 · answer #7 · answered by irishcharmer84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl likes someone that they feel comfortable around. The guys that burp and are obnoxious don't seem to care, and it's easy to get comfortable around them. The ones that are uptight and anxious make things awkward, like them awkward silences. I speak from experience, because I fall under the latter category. I'm quiet and would buy anything for any girl, but at the same time I know that being around me is awkward for girls and they don't like it at all.
2007-03-02 13:36:20 · answer #8 · answered by perfectlybaked 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice, intelligent guys don't have the look, the voice or humor that women are attracted towards. I've noticed this happen amongst people under 30.
2007-03-02 13:44:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because girls seem to think nice guys are boring and they want a challenge. So they go out with the D__K heads thinking they can change them to a nice guy but we all know that never works...
2007-03-02 13:35:43 · answer #10 · answered by Rolly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋