my sortof b.f told me he had to go to his moms tonight so we couldnt hang out... so being the great girl i am i went over ther to surprise him and just give him a hug n kiss n tell him ill miss him... then come to find out hes having a party... n him and all his friends are there drinkin... then come to find out my best friend is goin over there cuz he invited her. then his friends call me n talk to me
n they say that jake is high..after he promised he wouldnt do that ne more.. so i got mad and called him.. and he lied to me again and said he wasnt drunk or high but i knew he was. to top that off he said hed call me at 8 and he didnt so i called ne he didnt answer, so i called his friends and they answered and they were still there. should this be the end?
2007-03-02 13:28:08 · 8 answers · asked by confused07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, sounds to me , he;s a jerk, If he really cared about you he would tell you that he wanted to hang out with his friend's, If I were you I would dump him , and find someone else.
2007-03-02 13:33:28 · answer #1 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to make a moral decision...if you are highly offended by such behavior then perhaps you should find another...not all people who party are bad , and it can certainly be outgrown.. guys often need time with friends and it is difficult to explain that to a G F . ..perhaps you should give him a choice ...respect you and atleast be honest about things ...or go ahead and party all the time ya ... ha ha ... but the truth is that he should atleast have his priority's in order. Myself ..I like to party a little bit but my wife is # 1 for sure . If she exspresses that my fun time is gettin in the way then I would certainly take a look at the situation..and take good care of her needs...
2007-03-02 13:44:41 · answer #2 · answered by ronald b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off u called him your "sort of b.f" that means this relationship is not even serious. so if he lied you have no right for an explanation or even bothered to demand one. you seem to be more into him than what he's into you. he drinks and smokes is that the kind of guy you like? i think you shouldnt call him anymore since first off hes not answering your calls, stay away from him. he's not good for u.
2007-03-02 13:36:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Should this be the end?
That depends --- do you want a liar for a boyfriend? If yes, then by all means continue to see this boy. If not, then move on... quickly.
If he is lying to you, and inviting people to his party (but not you) it's too late for you to worry about him being your BF, anyway... he's not.
2007-03-02 13:34:09 · answer #4 · answered by kelannde 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a saying........"fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me." Sorry, but he sounds like a creep and he needs to be forgotten about. Move on, it will be better for you in the long run. Peace.
2007-03-02 13:35:15 · answer #5 · answered by FireBug 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to dump him hun. He's only going to hurt you more and more if you keep hanging on.
2007-03-02 13:34:25 · answer #6 · answered by goldensparkler61 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i honestly think if he kept doing that it should end hun.
it may hurt u,
but think of all the times he lied to you about it and crap...
i honestly think u deserve better.
i hope i helped you :) xx
2007-03-02 13:50:25 · answer #7 · answered by xwillxalwaysxmissxhimx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u should end this asap! he isnt treating u right and trust me no girl should be treated lyk crap! trust me he dont no wat he has!
2007-03-02 13:33:48 · answer #8 · answered by cute*gurly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋