in not sure of wat to think
2007-03-02 13:25:05 · 25 answers · asked by Mark W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
personally, i want my boyfriend to have a mind of his own and to tell me what he thinks... he is allowed to disagree with me! or else i will assume he's just lying for my benefit and is not telling the truth.
of course, never insult her and always tell her she is beautiful, because that is obviously what you boys think of your girlfriends all the time =)
2007-03-02 13:28:08 · answer #1 · answered by peaches87 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No way! I'm sure there are women who are controlling and would like that, but I would say the majority of us want our men to have their own minds and opinions. If a man agreed with me all the time, I'd be outta that relationship real fast cause I would know there was lying going on.
As far as the listening part, I like to know that my b/f has heard something I said. Like I had a midterm today, and I told him about it yesterday. Tonite he asked how it went. So, I know he was paying attention to what I was saying. That I like.
2007-03-02 21:33:42 · answer #2 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. A girl wants a challenge. If you agree with her all the time, then you're just a push-over. She wants a guy to take charge, while also taking her feelings and wants into consideration. There's gotta be give and take.
Now listening to her all the time... that takes some skill. Let me know if you figure out how to do that one.
2007-03-02 21:29:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, nobody wants a robot for a boyfriend. If you disagree then tell her. You don't have to be mean, just state your opinion while still respecting hers. Sometimes you can compromise. They do like it when you listen however. Usually she just wants a non-judgemental ear. You don't even have to comment. If she goes on and on about something being repetitive though, feel free to change the subject. :)
2007-03-02 21:28:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm..............weird question. Everyone likes it when people listen to them. and if the girl and the guy never agree they pry cant have a very good relationship because they're values must be very different. Also i do not understand why u spell never neva and with wit its not "gangsta" its just weird
2007-03-02 21:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by kate j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Us girls like you to be honest! Its harder though with some girls cuz they may take it the wrong way. I say try to be as honest as possible but the occasional SMALL white lie is probably ok. And we always love it when a guy can listen to us no matter where he is or what he is doing!
2007-03-02 21:33:44 · answer #6 · answered by Erin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls dont all want the same thing in guys.
personally I like it when a guy listens to me but aint afraid to disagree. everyone got they own opinion
2007-03-02 21:30:39 · answer #7 · answered by $t3pH@n!3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to guess, and just be real. Don't purposefully agree with her because you are trying to place her. But, it's just as bad to disagree with her because you think that is what she wants. Absolutely, listen to her. If you want to state your opinion, then do so. Be real, and be yourself. Don't try to guess what she WANTS you to be. If you do that, you are not being honest with her at she will catch you in the lie. The one thing you will learn in life is not to be a people pleaser. Don't try to please everyone. Be yourself and be confident in your opinions, beliefs, and who you are as a person.
2007-03-02 21:30:02 · answer #8 · answered by One Odd Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time
2007-03-02 21:26:55 · answer #9 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman likes a man to listen but also likes him to have an opinion. A man should take charge but respect the woman to let her have her say. if she wont let you get a word in edge ways and it is annoying you, speak up and tell her! :)
2007-03-02 21:32:36 · answer #10 · answered by alexa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋