Can you tell me what to do when i am sad about my crush having a gf? I need help getting over this. He is 3 years older than me and i am in middle school.
2007-03-02 13:24:12 · 11 answers · asked by Green With Envy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
find someone else. don't pay any attention to him
2007-03-02 13:26:18 · answer #1 · answered by jeff_elsten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what that's like. I'm 25, and I had so many crushes, and all of them would end tragically. I would unexpectedly see her with some guy, and it would always blindside me. I hate that. In the past I would just pretend that I didn't care, or that I knew my time would come, but now when that happens, I drink until I pass out. Of course, that may not be an option for you, sorry.
2007-03-02 21:27:44 · answer #2 · answered by perfectlybaked 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to move on and find somebody else. There are a lot of boys in this world and im sure you will find someonelse who is better than him. Try to join some clubs in your schools, mingle with a friends friend, search in friendster chat in the internet, that way you could be able to forget him and at the same time may find who is worth your effort, time and ofcourse your love.
2007-03-02 21:37:37 · answer #3 · answered by Lizeth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your going to have hundreds of crushes.. just enjoy life, you are young and too young to worry yourself over some guy.. have lots of friends, go out with lots of friends in groups, as a matter of fact, call up about six of your friends and all of you meet at the movies this weekend. Next weekend, take turns going over each others houses watching movies and eating pizza or burgers on the grill.. let the parents get to know you and all of your friends. Have fun sweetheart. you have so much more life ahead of you.
2007-03-02 21:28:45 · answer #4 · answered by Pamela Y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're sad becasue you are in middle school. When you grown up you will realize that it is no big deal. Focus on school and work hard, then the relationship deal wil work itself out. By the way, no one grows up to marry the same girl they were with in middle school. You'll have your chance eventually.
2007-03-02 21:28:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the exact same problem. crying about it at night helped me realieve some of my sadness. it also helped my realize that i could probably never have him anyway. something that i also thought about was i couldn't be mad at him 4 having a gf when i never even talked to him. wish u the best and i hope u start feeling better!
luvyalots!!
2007-03-02 21:34:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok, my friend's going out with my crush she didnt know i liked him though. someone better will come along you're only in middle school. just think that someone you really like and who really likes you will come. you have lots of time =)
2007-03-02 21:28:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's prob. infatuation honey with time and someone who cares for you , You will forget all about what's his name. Just hang in there. And you never know who you may meet when you keep your eyes open instead of being focused on one guy who is all ready involved.
2007-03-02 21:29:24 · answer #8 · answered by jp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, the simplicity of youth. Just wait until you have real problems.
2007-03-02 21:27:22 · answer #9 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on
2007-03-02 21:26:07 · answer #10 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well move on envy is one of the seven deadly sins!!!
2007-03-02 21:27:31 · answer #11 · answered by deegurl49 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋