2007-03-02 13:22:34 · 17 answers · asked by scarletfoxpanda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it depends on a lot of things.. who you are with... what kind of emotional bond you have, how in tune with your own body you are.... etc..... if your hymen hasn't broken already from masterbation or messing around... or physical activity like sports.. it hurts the first time... not TOO bad.. and you might bleed a little.
i'm sure if its between a loving couple its not too bad.... i kinda had mine taken from me without my consent.. so i'm not sure.. and he was really rough. it lasted about 60 seconds and hurt like hell, even though he had a small wee wee. lol
2007-03-02 13:26:35 · answer #1 · answered by MnKLmT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey they aren't necessarily too young. You think that everyone who is a virgin and wants to know what sex feels like is under 18. God no, the world may be going to s-h-i-t and every other teenage girl is having sex. Though there are some people perfectly normal. Who worked through school and never had time to have a relationship or have sex. I am 24 a previous boyfriend of mine, went into the army and over seas when he was 18 for 4 years. He lost his virginity at 22. Just because people are curious does not mean they are young. If they are young who cares. Kids and teenagers come on these sites to get help. They should not be ridiculed.
Sex for the first time for everyone is not as fantastic as any other time. It is a rush yes, but for a guy your first time will be over really fast. Don't worry about it, it is normal. For a female make sure you are well lubricated otherwise yeah it will hurt.
Sex is fantastic and should be practiced safely. The first time will not be spectacular but it will get better
2007-03-02 21:33:45 · answer #2 · answered by princesssweetcaroline 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Scarlet....Cute kitty.
Don't rush it. It's ok to think about it....perfectly normal....but don't rush it. Trust me, there's plenty of time for that.
Sex can be the best thing or the worst thing that you can do. It all depends on WHY you're doing it.
Relax, dream, talk about it.....but wait till it's right. Don't let some horney guy talk you into it for HIS on satisfaction. And don't believe his talk......a guy will say ANYthing that he thinks will get him laid the soonest.
What would be the very coolest, would be to wait till you are married.....married to just the right person. Then it will be beautiful, and bells will ring and birds will sing. Wait, if you can.
Thanks for listening.
Don
2007-03-02 21:32:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
From my experience i am 27 now I was 21 when I had my first incounter, it was very, very painful.He took his time but it still hurt. I hate him to this day but I am glad I gave it to him because is hurt me. And being that he hurt me emotional I could kind of equate the two.
2007-03-02 21:27:20 · answer #4 · answered by Shawnese D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
different for different girls.
my experience - painful, bloody. (ew)
but after a few times it gets better.
remember - don't have sex until you are READY and are MATURE and old enough and trust the person you are in a long term relationship with.
2007-03-02 21:25:54 · answer #5 · answered by peaches87 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the first time will be very painful, the next few times will be even worse, but once you get good practice at it, it will become very enjoyable.
good luck.
2007-03-02 21:27:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married its the best and greatest gift you can give if not life long regret it wasn't given to the right one.
2007-03-02 21:26:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nervous,awkward,kinda painful. Definetly wait for the right person or you might regret it later on.
2007-03-02 21:26:35 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Good Question. For me it was scary and wonderfull at the same time.
2007-03-02 21:27:45 · answer #9 · answered by John J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting, time passes quickly, not that nervous, kind of fun.
2007-03-02 21:25:32 · answer #10 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋