i am new in school and i am shy. i am going out with this guy that i have liked idk what to say to him? i really want this to work out. he has gone out with a girl and dumped her after 24 hours. i have past that time, how do i keep it going?
2007-03-02 13:08:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should just hope that things work out with this new guy.if it doesn't work out then I'm sure theirs alot more guys out their for you.just start a conversation with him like...... what you guys have in common.OK. oh and do good in your new school.
sincerely,
your friend
2007-03-03 01:18:18 · answer #1 · answered by zmoney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you shouldn't have to work hard just for a relationship to work. Relationships are solely for the purpose of finding the person that you want to spend the rest of your life with. If you have to work for him to not get tired of you, then you need someone new. However, if you're just curious about what you are supposed to do in new relationships, I'll give you a jist. Go out to places with him like the bowling alley or the lake to feed geese! Maybe try sports events if he likes those or movies. Be his best friend and hang out all the time, making fun and laughter your main ingredient, with a hint of seriousness and respect for one another where you can discuss how you feel about each other and be serious. Hope I helped, e-mail me if you have more little questions....
2007-03-02 21:14:46 · answer #2 · answered by Michael M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is "worth" your time, you shouldn't have to feel like you are on a timer for success. If this guy is a flake in things of the heart, you should just enjoy him as a friend and ask nothing more from the relationship.
In the meantime, enjoy your fresh start in the new school and leave yourself open to having a lot of friends, who knows, maybe you'll meet a really wonderful guy who doesn't change girls with the frequency he changes socks.
Happy life!
2007-03-02 21:13:07 · answer #3 · answered by OPTIMIST 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT A DILEMA.
how about relax and let things happen they way they are supposed to. Be yourself and dont try to be something your not.. if it doesnt work out FIND SOMEONE BETTER =)
thats what i do
2007-03-02 21:11:56 · answer #4 · answered by kcg4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself!
If he doesn't like you being you then hes not the guy for you.
Hes going out with you so he must like something about you!
-Sincerely, Lovely.
2007-03-02 21:11:35 · answer #5 · answered by CandyRed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Most teenage relationships end soon enough, so don't worry about it. Just enjoy the time you have together.
2007-03-02 21:13:33 · answer #6 · answered by Pseudo Obscure 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nothing- but yourself...then whatever happens will be meant to be...if it doesn't work out? NEXT lol
2007-03-02 21:11:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep him going by finding out what he likes and be your self. do what you do best
2007-03-02 21:11:55 · answer #8 · answered by phatsexy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just do what ur doing now, obviously u lasted longer than the other girl.... and be urself
2007-03-02 21:11:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be good to him
and try to understand him (what he wants)
and give him all those things (if you can)
cause thats how it works
so good lluck
2007-03-02 21:11:15 · answer #10 · answered by HULK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋