theres this guy i like and he really likes me but the thing is i dont know how to tell him that i like him. i often end up driving him home from school cause he usually has problems with his truck. and we sit next to each other during class and he's constantly flirting with me. the thing is i just really dont know how to tell him how i feel about him. any suggestions?
2007-03-02 13:06:23 · 5 answers · asked by esile619 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have. It sucks when you think back at it like I am now doing. I think you are in a great situation though because I havent had a woman drive me home after class on a consistent basis. If you know that he truly likes you then maybe you should drop some serious hints like: "it seems like we have been dating for a few weeks now" (and smile at him when you say it) or "i cant believe you dont have a girlfriend" (in a playful manner) or "can i have a hug before you leave?" or "i want to show you this beautiful scenery at sunset, its my private spot" or "here is my number, call me", lol, try something like that or one of your own =)
2007-03-02 13:32:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy and I must say, it is a sticky situation you are in becuase if a girl presents herself to easy, even if the guy does not like you that much he may go for you and just use you with never having any intentions of having or wanting a meaningfull relationship.
If you can tell he is not the type of guy who just wants in to your panties and/or other girls panties, then he would be a guy you could definetely let him know how you feel! I hope you understand. If you know he is a relationship type guy then definetly tell him some how, how you feel toward him!
See, I have past many many opportunity's to find or be with a girl because I am not really the aggresive type. I like to know (for sure) the girl likes me before I make a move to let her know I like her Likegetting some eye contact with her or something. I prefer the subtle indicators she gives like the one,s the previous posting say's. It is hard to constantly get rejection from girls you find so pretty and attractive when you are a guy. And from a guy's point of veiw, we become less likely to makle a move the next time for fear of the rejection again! I went seven years in my twenty's with out a girlfriend only to find I do not know what a girl wants from a guy becuase I never had a father and my mother did not have any interest in telling me about girls and she never did. Still today I do not have a girl friend and no children. It is very dissapointing to me to have grown older with out having really enjoyed the relationship of a good girl.
So, you should tell him how you fell if you know he is not the kind to take advantage of an easy lay unless ofcourse you do not care and want it too. Good luck with him.
2007-03-03 09:03:19 · answer #2 · answered by I made this! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
About everyone has someone they like or liked that they didn't tell. Try not to focus so much on the telling. Enjoy the time you are with him and focus on that. The telling will come on its own. or he may take the initiative for you. You can also let him know how you feel in subtle ways until you are able to figure out how to say it in words - flirting, compliments...
Another suggestion - watch Stranger than Fiction or Defending your Life
2007-03-02 21:24:09 · answer #3 · answered by True 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go for it. show him that you are the reason he was put on this worl. Prove to him that you are the girl. Just ask him this simple question. it can be out of no where or in class,this is what it is....
are we going to keep going on like this? Why dont you just ask me out all ready? call me with the answer....
it usually works 3 minutes befor class ends.
2007-03-02 21:14:01 · answer #4 · answered by emy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go for it. There's nothing wrong if you will try. Just tell him about what you feel.
2007-03-02 21:23:05 · answer #5 · answered by Nini 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋