2007-03-02 13:00:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that's a tough one. from personal experience if he cares for you its hurting him that you don't find him up to the standards of people that can meet your children. you don't have to introduce him as anything special just let him in to that part of your life and if its only once that is better than nothing :)
2007-03-02 13:19:10 · answer #1 · answered by raul3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't introduce anyone to my children that I wasn't serious about and that wasn't serious about me. My husband and I dated for over 2 years before we meant each others children. I didn't want my children subjected to a bunch of different men and neither of us wanted our children getting attached to someone that probably wouldn't be a part of their lives. It's not healthy for children to see men go in and out of their Mother's lives.
2007-03-02 13:07:09 · answer #2 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I consider you 2 months is lots to quickly to be introducing a infant to a sparkling lady buddy. i don't think of toddlers could be presented to a mothers and dads boyfriend/lady buddy until the relationship is severe and the parent knows of that the guy is going to be around for a whilst. at surely the least i might say 6 months (i'm especially confident maximum relationships that at the instant are not going to final won't make it previous 6 months) yet i might probable wait a minimum of a three hundred and sixty 5 days myself. i comprehend whilst my sister and her husband split up her little ones met each and every woman he dated interior some weeks of him relationship them (he additionally moved in along with his girlfriends especially immediately) and it became troublesome on the toddlers to get a related to those woman purely to over pay attention their father undesirable talking them some weeks or months later. regrettably on your undertaking you somewhat don't have lots administration over who he brings around whilst he has her. It sucks yet perchance in case you are attempting reasoning with him and explaining which you somewhat want him to make confident she would be in a position to be around for awhile until now he facilitates your daughter to get to comprehend her and supply him a actual looking quantity of time he could wait that he will agree on and agree which you will wait that long once you meet somebody besides
2016-10-17 03:38:20 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl! A long, long time!! When you know the fool won't run out on you and leave your kids very sad. No sense in giving them any more sadness than necessary...especially over some guy you just met.
2007-03-02 13:08:19 · answer #4 · answered by 452 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to wait till you know for sure he is going to be around awhile. Kids can become attached easily to people that come into their lives and if he leaves, the child may be hurt more than you are.
2007-03-02 13:06:43 · answer #5 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he doesnt know about them and you two have been going out that's a problem that probably wont go over too well with him, or he'll see it as a pleasent suprise. but if he knows about them and just hasnt met them, just wait until your gut says that you're comfortable with it, then do brief meetings. and whatever you do, DONT LET HIM TAKE OVER THE HOUSE AND PUNISH YOUR KIDS! that happened to me and i'm about to let my e-mail (syko_1118@yahoo.com) be put to use. meaning my mental health is heading south quick.
2007-03-02 13:08:57 · answer #6 · answered by BORED 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the man and your relationship
you will know
give it a while to be sure he will be around long enough
2007-03-02 13:07:06 · answer #7 · answered by hardwood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how your children feel about meeting him and if he is okay with meeting them you don't want to rush them
2007-03-02 13:04:42 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋