There's this guy in my college Eng. comp class. We've only had the class about 5 weeks. We've talked a few times and someone mentioned something about myspace, and he and I discovered we both had myspace accounts and exchanged id's. Well last night I told him a friend and I were looking for a cool hang out spot and he told me about one, and wanted to be invited. Then he gave me his ph # because he was tired of typing.
The thing is, he is normally a guy I would consider "out of my league". But he has complained to me about being single and tired of it. Do you think he's wanting to hang out with me just because we have things in common? Or does he have an interest? I have seen pics of his previous girlfriends, and they are all really pretty and skinny, but I'm not. I'm fat and ugly. So what do YOU think about this?
2007-03-02 12:45:31 · 11 answers · asked by brunettebabe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not a guy, but i have alot of guy friends and i've helped them out with these issues. What I believe is that since hes experienced the superficial girls, hes realized they aren't as great as everyone talks them up to be. He wants someone with personality so he's trying to drop subtil hints that he is infact showing an interest in you.
Go for him girl, make him work for it, be proud you could attract an attractive man. Clearly you're beautiful, so don't go calling you're self fat and ugly, you're gorgeous so work it girl and play the field!
Give him a try, whats the worst that could happen?
Good luck
2007-03-02 12:55:04 · answer #1 · answered by toronto_leafs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no such thing as "out of your league." Outside of your looks, there's a person inside, and that's what matters. t sounds cliche, but think about it: You'r a girl, and he's a guy. He's not staring at himsefeverywhere he goes, hre doesn't know he's hot. And you aren't staring at yourself everywhere you go, so you can't make up his mind for him. He might think you're good looking, and he might think he doesn't have a chance with you!
Give yourself some credit! You're a human being, like every other girl, and you've got everything it takes to get whoever you want. You just have to believe in yourself.
2007-03-02 20:56:56 · answer #2 · answered by ZaKapitan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now let's get one thing striaght! It doesn't matter what's on the outside, it doesn't matter just like the points on Whose Line Is It Anyway. It's what's inside that counts. Now, he sounds like he's more interested in you then any girl he ever meet. Never Judge A Book By It's Cover. Why not get to become friends. Then if things go better and y'all get more intreasted in each other, then take it up the next level. If not, y'all can stay friends.
2007-03-02 20:55:20 · answer #3 · answered by Robby M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he just wants to hang out with you and your Friend at a club. Maybe he doesn't think of as a date, but, just people hanging out at a cool spot. Take it at that and you might find that he is just a guy away from home looking to hang out with good people. Have fun and try not to trip. Sounds like a nice fellow.
2007-03-02 21:22:21 · answer #4 · answered by make room for daddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he said the thing about being tired of being single, that meant he likes you. and looks dont matter unless youre a vain ******* who needs to get your head checked. and why do you think those laddies are PAST girlfriends?... maybe he thinks you're a really good person and actually like you for who you are, not who you look like? so stop saying you're fat and ask him to dinner or something, then try to start looking like all those other girls if you think he deserves it....
good luck!
2007-03-02 21:00:36 · answer #5 · answered by BORED 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u think he is into u go 4 it. i mean if he is single and wants a gir and u are 1 why not try and see. i mean there is noting to lose and a lot to gain.if u think his is into u that is what u have to go by
2007-03-02 20:53:49 · answer #6 · answered by andymixmaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to lay you. if youre fat and ugly and want some from a hot guy go for it. you may think about your reputation before hand though
2007-03-02 20:53:48 · answer #7 · answered by nickname 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not a giiiiiiiiirrl no woman thinks they are fat or ugly
2007-03-02 20:52:26 · answer #8 · answered by floyd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my gracious girl just ask him out and i hate it when girls say they are fat and \ugly they just need to stop dogging on themselves and just live life to the fullest so ASK HIM OUT its worth a shot!!!! ;) good luck ;)
2007-03-02 20:54:40 · answer #9 · answered by delta3835 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear wedding bells.
2007-03-02 20:48:37 · answer #10 · answered by seahorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋