Went with a new friend who introduced me to a couple of her friends. This one woman sounded like she had a boyfriend but later it became evident this wasn't the case (think the guy she was talking about just used her for sex and went his own way that night with another gal). This girl got me to dance (big feat there) and acted real nice, and a little bashful, to me most of the time. But of all the guys at our table she didn't give me a lap dance (except another guy who was getting one by her friend) and started hanging on the bad boy/red neck guy at our table. Everyone else there was trying to get me and this girl together, even the guy she was hanging on! But she had him drive her home (he came back a little later so I don't think a lot happened). She told me to give her friend my number. Not sure if she's interested in me or if I should persue her. I find her really attractive and have little choice when it comes to getting women.
2007-03-02 12:44:53 · 14 answers · asked by InvicibleStar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go for it life is full of ups and downs theres nothing wrong with trying to get it changed to lifes in and outs.
She can only say no to a date inquiry.
2007-03-02 12:52:09 · answer #1 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like she was a nice girl and might have been interested but from what you have said about her it does not seem likely that she will pursue you in a relationship, more like just to get you for sex because that is what she is interested in right now, sure you could give her friend your phone number but it will be likely that she will not call you and move on as she will forget who you are and the number that matches you. It is really what you want to do though.
2007-03-02 12:54:59 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she really likes the other guy she was hanging on. And danced with you to make him jealous. Sorry to say it but don't fret about it too much. A nice girl is out there somewhere for you.
I know you think you don't have a ot of options but you do if you look in the right places. A girl who gives every(or even alomost every..)guy in a bar a lapdance is probably just a little too trashy for you. I know you got excited because you managed to get some attention but don't read too much into it. I suspect she felt a little sorry for you for some reason.
They were probably trying to set you up with her because you are shy, and they thought you needed to get laid and she was easy. It happened that way with my friend Allen and he felt so incredibly crappy afterwards because he got laid once (out of pity)and then dumped by her, He hasn't dated any girl since then.
2007-03-02 12:54:54 · answer #3 · answered by Cuppycake♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not have some fun. She got you up dancing, and you had a good time. I say go for it. You will never no till you give it a try. Stranger things have happened. You sound like a nice guy, and you deserve to have a girlfriend.
2007-03-02 12:55:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait like a week or so if there is not any reaction then call him cus it will be all unpredicted and stuff if he doesnt %. up call him the subsequent day on ur friends telephone. in case you actually like that him that a lot and he became rly sweet n stuff then he wouldnt have accomplished that. also be heavily you dont call him to a lot cus you are able to sound clingy yet ya wish this enables!!
2016-12-05 04:14:22 · answer #5 · answered by mrotek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's giving lap dances to all the guys in the bar, she's probably not a woman who is worth dating anyway.
2007-03-02 12:49:23 · answer #6 · answered by VOLLEYBALLY 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time!!! Attractive wears off quickly. She sounds a little looopy. Women find confidence attractive.
2007-03-02 13:04:03 · answer #7 · answered by Third Day 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you're really attractive to her then go for it. but when you say "...and have little choice when it comes to getting women." That basically tells women that you have little or no confidence in yourself.
2007-03-02 12:50:41 · answer #8 · answered by Mel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SHe sounds like a real winner dude.....cmon
2007-03-02 12:53:00 · answer #9 · answered by forbidnfruit_420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trash man. Stay away.
2007-03-02 12:50:14 · answer #10 · answered by seahorse 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋