2007-03-02 12:42:34 · 13 answers · asked by gina r 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It really depends on the maturity level. I'm not for it nor am I against it. Either way it will be a learning experience for someone. Whether they are better off or make a big mistake. It's all about giving things a try and learning from it =]
2007-03-02 12:46:25 · answer #1 · answered by Odessa Fraser 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, its not alright. he's why. At 16 a teen is just beginning to blossom into a woman, make that a young woman. There are so many things that young women need that fake amrraiges cannot provide. One of those things is young women need their education. If a young woman is living with a man, she's more likely going to wind up shirking her responsibilities to education and getting more into being a housewife. I wonder if that's what the young woman wants...really.
At 16 a young woman should be hangng out with her friends and permitting her parents or guardians to lead her development into womanhood.
Living with a man when you're still a child is not a good idea. You will miss out on the fun of being a young person as you assume an adult role ahead of time.
While the romanctic angle of this might appeal to your immature side, there are other sides to this that may not be so romantic including washing his socks, preparing three meals a day, not having the money to do any number of fun things and other responsiblities. Im sure the adults in the young lady's life would rather she wait until she's older to take on such a mature role.
And the bf, what's the rush? Is he in school? What's on his agenda? Is he in college? At 16, your bf and you should both stay in school, get decent educations and proceed after graduation.
Funny thing about love, it will keep if its meant to be.
2007-03-02 12:53:02 · answer #2 · answered by TygerLily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think it's ok, you're to young for that yet. You really have no idea what life is like honey. Stay home, just date, you have your whole like ahead of you. Have fun as a teen should. Gosh, there are so many things I could tell you. If you move out on your own with a boy no less, you are asking for a lot more than a possible disappointment.
2007-03-02 12:53:19 · answer #3 · answered by Dee G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you wont really be on your own, cause you will have a room mate. Also, why would you want to. You haven't had a single life. You need to get out there and have some life experience. How can you do that if your tied to some guy. You might regret this after a very short time. You can have sex when you want to, but big deal, you will tire of that also, especially if you get pregnant. Hopefully you are smart enough to protect yourself. Did you graduate? First things first.
2007-03-02 12:49:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No! No! NO! Are you kidding??? 11 years ago, I was 16 and I would have loved to live with my boyfriend! Thank goodness I would not have had the nerve to ask my parents. If you're the parent stand up and put your foot down. She's just a baby!
2007-03-06 12:47:14 · answer #5 · answered by LT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a horrible, horrible idea and don't do it under any circumstances. I know it probably seems fun and romantic now, but believe me, later in life you'll look back and feel ashamed and stupid. Have some dignity and character, and respect yourself enough not to "play house" with a boyfriend. At 16, your job is to concentrate on finishing school and figure out how to make something of yourself. Good luck!
2007-03-02 12:52:50 · answer #6 · answered by meatpiemum 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Gina,
You have the rest of your life to grow up and establish your Independence. Having to live up to life's responsibilities will come soon enough, and, going back is so very hard to do. Seek comfort in your family, finish high school and go to college, if you possibly can. Don't become one of the thousands of misguided and impoverished youth, that go aimlessly from day-to-day. Set a high standard for yourself. One that you have to stand on your tip-toes and strain to achieve. Don't settle of mediocre or "good enough". Don't place yourself in a position to be trapped, disheartened or left behind. Shoot for the sky!
Good luck, and God Bless!
2007-03-02 12:56:18 · answer #7 · answered by Pastor Jeff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a mistake, it probably won't matter to you no matter what people say about it, but later on in life you will realize that you should of listened. No matter what you decide to do, remember this, Every action you take, has consequences, Try to make the right one as much as possible. And when you make mistakes and fall, learn from it, get up and keep going. Life takes determination. Success is measured by how many times you fell and got up.
Good Luck on your decision.
2007-03-02 12:51:50 · answer #8 · answered by alxever 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, and it is pathetically irresponsible of the adult in charge of the teen. We don't need anymore pregnant girls sapping off the government for money and bringing up another kid who will be just as irresponsible.
2007-03-02 12:47:07 · answer #9 · answered by VOLLEYBALLY 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, what if you become pregnant? it is a BIG responsibility. you're too young to have a boyfriend. does ur boyfriend has job? if no? where do u get food? how can u live???
2007-03-02 12:48:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋