There's this girl I am thinking about asking out sometime, but don't know if I should. I've known her for about 2 months, and just started talking to her recently. The reason I am hesitant is because she always talks about how attractive other guys are in front of me and her friend. I'm getting the hint that she might be interested because she makes some good eye contact.
Ahhh... what should I do?
2007-03-02 12:39:29 · 19 answers · asked by norskiekid 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask her out
2007-03-02 12:41:59 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take some time to get to know her. Maybe get a big group of your friends and her friends together and go out for a movie, spend most of the night with her and sit next to her in the movie theater, at dinner if y'all go before or after the movie if y'all go at all, be sure to sit next to her there as well, and just take it slow. Flirt with her also! That will give her a little hint!
Good Luck!
2007-03-02 20:45:58 · answer #2 · answered by Karen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be truthful with her. First tell her how you feel and then ask her out. As a girl I want guys to be straight forward with me. I don't like it when they play games and I don't like wondering whether he likes me or not. I wish that this guy I know would just confront me instead of play games with me. I quit his game long time ago (I confronted him first and our conversation was interrupted because of him and he never bothered to come and talk to me after that incident), but I still wish that he would be an adult and talk to me because I am giving him a second chance. Maybe she is wondering just like you. Take a chance. It's better than what you're feeling right now. Please don't be just like every other guy on this planet. Talk to her.
Just thought I'd give you a girl's perspective. Good Luck.
2007-03-02 21:00:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it nobody ever died from being told no and a yes is always possible. Just remember a girl could think guy a is the foxiest man ever but if he is too shy to ask her out he will never know that is how she see's him. Bing to afraid to hear no will prevent you from ever hearing yes. Good luck !!!
2007-03-02 20:46:56 · answer #4 · answered by John N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow, the most important thing in the beginning is that you show her she can trust you, become her friend and give her a hint that you are into her, but don't tell her just yet. If she is into you she will play along and that opens the road for you.
Good luck
2007-03-02 20:44:57 · answer #5 · answered by alxever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out. She's totally trying to make you jealous by saying how good looking other guys are in front of you. I still do that to my fiance! Go for it and good luck!
2007-03-02 20:43:08 · answer #6 · answered by Roseann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. Fact of life. Or should I say fact of girls. Girls like guys. They think they're hott. They like to talk. So they talk about guys. She likes you. I've seen this all too many times. Just ask her about going somewhere with you casually and go from there. Good luck!
2007-03-02 20:43:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just (dare is say) ignorant of the world around you. Love is fake, it is just a primal emotion, the only reason we have relation ships is to find faults in all who we "go out" with. eventualy, we find someone with all of the qualitys we like, and then procreate. This is the only reason we are alive: to pass on our genes
2007-03-02 20:43:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out. She probably wanted to see your reaction..I mean if you get little jealous then she would know if you liked her back! LOL Go for the gold!
2007-03-02 20:52:11 · answer #9 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah!
i say ask her out
no harm done in that
and the whole talking about cute guys in front of you...
trying to make you jealous ;)
2007-03-02 20:44:09 · answer #10 · answered by katie<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's unsure or she could be playing hard to get. But if you think she really likes you, then go for it. Good luck!
2007-03-02 20:43:17 · answer #11 · answered by anthro_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋