how do i get my girlfriend to like my closest friend because she thinks am cheating on her with my closest friend and she says i have to pick and they both mean so much to me.my girlfriend is pregnant and i dont want to lose either of them as they both mean the world to me
what do i do?
Please help
2007-03-02 12:32:07 · 5 answers · asked by Disturbed666 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not seeing my closest friend either and my girlfriend wants me to pick her or my closest friend
2007-03-02 12:44:37 · update #1
I was in that situation before. Just stay away from your best friend right now. What your girl sees is that she is your best friend and she doesn't want another chick to be your friend.
2007-03-10 05:12:12 · answer #1 · answered by Basic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend will never like your closest friend - girls don't like sharing their boyfriends, and if you are seeing both of them at the same time, then you are cheating. You are going to have to pick. And seeing as you got one of them pregnant, I hope you decide to stand by the mother of your baby. It's time to stop playing and become an adult.
2007-03-02 20:40:48 · answer #2 · answered by Annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to lose a best friend male/female to your mate. Have they tried talking to eachother? If your g/f hangs out with her some maybe they'd find some things in common and become friends themselves. Maybe try and get them to go to dinner together without you or shopping or something that they can have a chance with eachother. Also, if her and your g/f become friends, that should help with the jealousy she is feeling. Also remember, right now if she is pregnant, hormones are changing and moodiness tends to occur. Try to be sympathetic to that when you are discussing this with her. Let her know how much she means to you, but you need to have friends too.
2007-03-02 20:40:05 · answer #3 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is simple, just be HONEST. Because with this, no matter the result, you will not hiding the truth, so you will not have any guilty feeling, and there's a possibility that both of them will understand your problem and all of you will happily ever after...
2007-03-02 20:47:43 · answer #4 · answered by andremalang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe just lay off talking to the friend(explain to her what is going on so she understands) for a little while just to show your girlfriend you care....after all you are having a kid with your her
2007-03-02 20:38:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋