Ok, my bf is upset about me going out with one of my guy friends tomorrow. At first he tells me that it's ok and his not worried about it. However, he tells me that it is disrespectful to him and that his not jealous. Anyway, his whole problem is, that I never told him about this guy friend and we have been dating now for five years(me and my bf). Also, he tells me that I told him about all my guy friends and he never heard about this guy until a couple of weeks ago. I meet this guy before in South Philly when I use to hang out and he use to be on my AIM but we have lost contact. A couple of weeks ago he AIM me and we were just chatting about things (he also knows that I have a bf). Anyway, I just want to know what would you say or do in this situation/ should I hang out with this guy or not?
2007-03-02 12:31:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my ex was the same way she would do that and i would get worried but i trusted her and i always let her do wat she wanted but encase u were wondering we broke up because she was a suicidal emo chick that always slit her wrist if the slightest thing wrong so i just worried about that and started cutting but i just gave up on her and we broke up today :( well srry if that brought u down but just do wat u want girl and besides he should have more faith in u i mean u've been dating for FIVE WHOLE YEARS!!!!! he should trust u a little more ;) good luck
2007-03-02 12:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by delta3835 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There may not be anything wrong with it in your eyes, but how you would feel if the shoe was on the other foot. Say a girl knows your boyfriend for years, and wanted to go out to do some catching up, what would you do? I would ask your boyfriend if he would like to come with you. If you have nothing to hide there should be no problem.
2007-03-02 20:40:35 · answer #2 · answered by Dee G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him he's being a little unreasonable. I mean you lost contact with the guy and didn't think of mentioning him because of that. Does he expect you to mention every guy you might have been friends with all the way to kindergarten? And is he going to get mad if you bump into a guy from the 10th grade and he asks you to coffee to catch up on stuff?
2007-03-02 20:38:32 · answer #3 · answered by Tina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋