ok well..i was just wondering how to be a good maker outter lmao...because i don't really know how to...i always feel like i am doing it wrong or something..thnx (and don't laugh)
2007-03-02 12:29:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
jeez you people are all freakin spelling Nazis ...my god i should go and slit my wrists because i spelled one freakin word wrong...
2007-03-02 12:42:51 · update #1
Don't be embarrassed - we've all thought it at some time or another and those who haven't probably aren't that good at it anyway. Remember this - putting your hand (or hands) on a girl's face when you lean in to kiss her works like a charm every time. Being cute and turning to kiss her lips gently with your hands behind your back or in your lap is great too. Don't use too much tongue, it gets messy. Open your mouth lightly for that French kiss and don't shove it in her mouth (LOL), let her open hers too and start off slow, around her teeth. Go back to regular kissing, lightly sucking, on her lips and return to the french sort when it feels right. Lightly kiss the back of her neck if she is ready for it. EARLOBES ARE A MUST! It is such a sensual area. Don't lick, just lightly suck on the lobe and breathe gently into her ear. Don't do it for long because the earlobe gets overstimulated easily and becomes more annoying than wonderful. Hopefully, you and your girl take it relatively easy unless you're older and have been together a while, but if she is OK with it going further put your hand lightly over her shirt and carress lovingly. ASK her first, or put your hand against the top of her chest, not too close to the breast, and slowly massage and move it down nearer the breast very slowly (unless she puts it there, of course). You should always do it this way so that she doesn't feel as if you're going straight for the kill all the time. Do not go any further than she seems willing to. If you're already onto second, lightly squeeze her nipple and kiss her mouth gently. If the mouth-to-mouth starts to go quicker, just go with the flow but don't push. Always make sure she is ready and willing before you take any step - and ALWAYS remember to respect her and how far she wants to go. Girls love romance. Play some music she likes, put your hand behind her head (a brilliant move) or against the side of her cheek (or at the back of her neck) as you kiss her. Plant one on her while holding your face. I promise you, as a woman, this will work.
I swear, if you're 12 I'm going to get in SO much trouble, so hopefully you're of age. I'm going on the fact that you've made out before because of your anxiety about doing something wrong. The best thing to do is ask her what she'd like so you become more familiar with her and what feels good.
Good luck, kiddo!
*Listen to Waterboy! He's got it down pat. Putting one hand on her face and the other in her hair, lightly scratching the back of her head/neck does it for me every time. Also, putting your hand against the small of her back helps for balance =), and feels great. And kiss her palm, it's enough to make most girls swoon. Lightly kiss her fingers and hand. Some girls love it when you kiss the side of their hand and lightly work your way up the elbow. Yummy.
2007-03-02 12:46:34 · answer #1 · answered by Me, Thrice-Baked 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just allow things to progress naturally and don't be too pushy or in a rush to get it on. Unless the girl complains you really can't be sure wether you are doing it wrong or right. Just relax as hard as that may be and go with the flow. Good luck
2007-03-02 12:34:58 · answer #2 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if yoo be romantic and are in a car or something heres whattyou do
1. make eye contact
2. lean in slowely let her know whats coming
3.give her one gentle kiss and pull away and make eye contact again
you w ll be able to tell by the look on her face if she wants morethen turn your head to the side and let your mouth open slightly and meet her mouth
4. just let it be natural
and remember if she isn't liking it or looks upset leave her alone i hope this helps
you can do this at any speed after use protection
2007-03-02 12:37:49 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Heather♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is my honest answer, if you want your woman to melt into you, hold her face in your hands and gently kiss her, then keep one hand on her cheek using the other one to gently scratch the back of her head running your fingers through her hair, stare into her eyes,touch her lips with your fingertips and let her know that she is amazing be gentle you arent trying to win a pizza eating contest, dont perform the same thing over and over, she will get bored and so will you,work your way to her neck and be soft, then go back up, and kiss her jawline and suck the earlobes and let her feel your warm breathe in her ear, and then you are on your own wear protection thats the most important tip you will ever get
2007-03-02 12:38:16 · answer #4 · answered by waterboy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DO's
- start out slow
- slow gentle touches
- look them in the eyes
- moan a little
- gentle kisses at first
- tongue advnaces in SMALL STEPS
- disengage enough to let them breathe
DON'T's
- slather
- drool
- be too aggressive
- just focus on your own pleasure
- obsess about maknig them happy
- overdo the phony atmosphere
Have fun!
IMPORTANT P.S. And this is regardless of gender ... go to GOOGLE VIDEO and put in "two sexy girls kissing" and YES it is a lesson plan.
2007-03-02 12:35:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
A good start is not to be a sloppy kisser .
There is nothing worse than having drool all over your mouth and knowing its not yours.
2007-03-02 12:34:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
LoL!!! I have asked this question in my head several times, and I don't even know if I am a good maker outer. So I don't know.
2007-03-02 12:32:22 · answer #7 · answered by Mattimos 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The main thing is to not drool!
Otherwise, just take your cues from the person you are kissing and mimic the way they do it.
2007-03-02 12:32:25 · answer #8 · answered by HearKat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont worry i used to wonder that too...jus get a good friend who u dont really want to be nothing more with and practice with her! and let that person be someone ur very comfortable with..she'll tell u if ur doin sumthin wrong..lol...yea it helped with me
2007-03-02 12:32:16 · answer #9 · answered by [(I.L.W.S.M)] 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
at first be gentle start by licking her lower lip and then nibble on it a little bit then slowly stick your tongue in her mouth no hurry ok... then massage your tongue with hers as ease as that then later on be little bit aggressive
2007-03-02 12:34:03 · answer #10 · answered by beutifulbutterfly101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋