I have a friend (honestly its a friend) and she has been "dating" a guy for like a week. He loves her A LOT but shes not so sure. I'm talking to them both right now and they want my advice. The boy is wondering if she really likes him and my friend won't tell him the truth cuz she cares enough not to want to be mean. And I am SO confused!!! Plz help ASAP!!!
2007-03-02 12:17:00 · 2 answers · asked by Smuckers 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your girlfriend should "not " be pressured by anyone. After dating a guy for one week, it is certainly not enough time to even consider being"in Love". I do not blame her for not being sure. Realistically, she probably does not even know if she seriously likes this guy yet. If this guy thinks that he is in love after ONE week of dating, he is misguided about the entire concept of Love.I am sorry, people say "I love you" too often these days, and are too cavalier about just trowing the phrase out there. There is nothing casual about Love. Tell this guy to slow down, or he will definitely scare your girlfriend away, he is coming on too strong. I think your girlfriend is smart, not to rush into anything.She should let him know, she wants to take things slow. If this guy can not give her the time she needs, then she should tell him, sorry, I am not interested.She sounds very level headed. Why are you confused? She is your friend, and I think you should support her in her decision, to take it slow.
2007-03-10 12:02:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get ur friend your to tell him the truth so they can talk bout it n mayb take it slow, as i have found out honesty is always the best policy and if someone doesnt feel the same way, it will come out sooner or later much less hurt now than later on when he thinks hes got a chance me x p.s poor u being stuck in the middle i hate that
2007-03-02 20:22:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋