2007-03-02 12:13:29 · 39 answers · asked by dan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
are you kidding?? ... have you seen all the new BBW's in this world today? Dude, there's someone for everyone.
2007-03-02 12:15:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it's possible to "get" someone no matter what you look like. Many people of all sizes have significant others. Often looks are not the most important thing to them. Sometimes heavier people attract them more than smaller people, and sometimes, they are attracted to people based not on size, but on their overall beauty or handsomeness (which has nothing to do with size). Everyone will not be attracted to you, and that doesn't make them shallow or mean, it means they have a different preference, just like I'm sure you do. All you can do is be yourself and try to present yourself as best you can, as a person, not just physically. Be confident in who you are and take a risk. Good luck.
2007-03-02 12:19:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
from a fat chicks perspective.. yes u can find love.. i know u are a man but u know what ? i have girlfreinds that are skinny and very pretty.. guess what they have? one night stands and heart breaks.. guess what i have ? i have a great man.. he is wonderful and caring. he isnt skinny.. he is a little chunky. but he is great. one day a woman will walk in a room and want to get to know u and it will happen. i was alot smaller when i met him and he was chunky... i didnt look at his body.. i loved what is in his heart. but u know what ? u just need to get out there and have some fun.. dont be looking for it.. it will happen. i know it sucks being single... but believe me it will be worth the wait when u find that woman that rocks ur world. dont listen to the assholes on here saying u need money or need to lose weight or cant get a girl cause u are over weight.. people need to wake up and realize 90 percent of americans are over weight.. and the other 9 percent are asshole people.. 1 percent are the decent ones.. sorry that is just my opinion.. thanks alot for letting me answer ur question.. and hey good luck and have a great life.. just remember get out there and have some fun...
2007-03-02 12:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by sayna_skylar02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is someone for everyone out there all you have to do is look and find the right places. You can find anyone as long as you maintain confidence and are secure in yourself image and yourself.
Bottom line: Love is a hard to find thing for some and when you finally do find real love take care of it. Good luck
2007-03-02 12:20:14 · answer #4 · answered by calmlikeatimebomb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, but first impressions are what sparks a first attraction. Would you be attracted to an overweight woman before you ever spoke to her, or got to know her? It's just more difficult for someone who is overweight to get a relationship STARTED. After a person knows who you are...no problem. Physical appearance only counts for about the first 20 minutes After that...it's all about who you are.
2007-03-02 12:16:24 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, just make sure you're clean and neat with a great outlook on life= Attitude.
That first impression is what counts, rarely will you get a second chance if first impression doesn't cut it.
Also, there is an old saying: for every lock, there is a key and vice verso!
ATTITUDE, ATTITUDE= BELIEVE IN WHO YOU ARE, THAT'S WHAT YOU WILL PROJECT!!!!!
2007-03-02 12:21:15 · answer #6 · answered by SwissAK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Serial killers get marriage proposals in prison from beautiful women every day. This proves that it's not about the image. It's all about the attitude.
2007-03-02 12:17:54 · answer #7 · answered by Jimmy Sn. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need money to get a girl if your fat. Just be dressed very nice and I'm sure you'll find someone that likes for who you are.
2007-03-02 12:17:47 · answer #8 · answered by forever_midnight 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How fat? If you're talking like 300 - no but if it's more than that - maybe so. It's all about how you make her feel.
2007-03-02 12:16:58 · answer #9 · answered by Nette 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah I've seen some of the ugliest guys with women....it's all about knowing how to talk to and treat a woman...
2007-03-02 12:16:31 · answer #10 · answered by Miss Interpreted 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IM NOT SURE IF FAT ATTRACTS A LADY OR NOT ? IT MIGHT DEPEND IF YOU HAVE A FAT WALLET TO MATCH YOUR FAT ! YOUR BEST BET IS TO LOSE SOME LBS ALL THE WHILE MAINTAINING YOUR FAT WALLET BUT THEN YOUR WALLET WOULD START SHRINKING AND YOU WOULD START GETTING FATTER FROM EATING TOO MUCH WORRYING ABOUT YOUR SHRINKING WALLET.
2007-03-02 12:22:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋