Okay, I am in the eighth grade and I have never had a bf and never kissed a guy before. Well, this guy (evan) told one of my best friends that he wanted to go out w / me. So they said yes for me and stuff. It is our fourth day going out and I just started talking to him because I never see him unless I go out of my way to see him. I really like him and I am pretty sure he likes me, but I am scared that he is going to break up with me because we never see each other. I plan on seeing him a lot more, but I don't know if it will work out. Should I write him a note or something and explain how I am worrying about this and how nervous I am? Ur opinions please? Don't say stuff like "you're too young to worry about that stuff" because I d/c I already am and you can't stop me. I am just really worried that the guy I really like is going to break up w / me over something stupid. Should I stop worrying and stop being nervous about it?
2007-03-02 12:04:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By the way - My parents don't know about me going out with him and I hope that problem won't enterfere with anything. So I can only see him at the movies if I go with one of my best friends...yea.
2007-03-02 12:29:17 · update #1
I kind of felt the same way when my boyfriend and I started going out, I told him about it, and he told me that we would work around it all, that we would figure out how to spend more time together and get to know each other more. He made me feel so much better about it, and we have been happily dating for a while now. So yes I think you should talk to him about how you're feeling. Just tell him that you're worrying about it, maybe he feels the same way.It would be better to talk to him in person, but if you're more comfortable writing it down that works as well.
2007-03-02 12:12:04 · answer #1 · answered by somedaywillcome 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd never had a girlfriend and I'd never kissed anyone neither. Rock Me Gently by Andy Kim. This song really explains your situation and how maybe you feel. I hope this song helps out becuase some things are best explained with music like this song.
2007-03-02 20:13:16 · answer #2 · answered by Robby M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like him write him that note
if he feels the same he should understand
that its sort of awkward for you and he'll respect
that. having a boyfriend can be stressful to though
dont forget that. its a great thing and a wonderful feeling
worrying and nervousness arent something you can always control you have every reason to be a little scared. i know i was with my first real relationship. hopefully everything works out. hope this helps
2007-03-02 20:09:35 · answer #3 · answered by Miss LisSandra =] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to be nervous! Maybe send him a little note or call him and tell him how you are feeling. He will understand.
xoxo,
Cosette
2007-03-02 20:08:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should let him know how your feeling cause if you don't then he'll never know.And since you guys don't see each other that much y'all should make plans for the weekend ^_^
2007-03-02 20:12:25 · answer #5 · answered by dominique g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write to him and let him know how you feel. I would write to him if I were so nervous. He'll understand and he'll be easier on you.
2007-03-02 20:13:11 · answer #6 · answered by Livin it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋