I love Paul. But I am a mess. I am emotionally unstable. I belong wih him I know that and we should be together but I dont want him to be with a girl who is screwed up. I dont know what to do. Please help me.
2007-03-02 12:01:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So denial is your reason to be apart from him? You can't be happy if you can't make yourself happy. If he loves you, than what's a little emotional instability?
2007-03-02 12:05:27 · answer #1 · answered by lickthisup69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm trying to get over a similar situation. Me and this guy had the chemistry and these feelings that in all of my past relationships I'd never had and then it was over. I let him know how I felt and apparently he didn't care or we would be together now. I don't know the details of your situation. What I learned is that if he wants you he will chase you and if it really is love then he will eventually come back to you. As hard as it is at some point if he doesn't want to be with you, you have to let him go. If you don't you'll go crazy thinking about him, dreaming about him, wondering what he's doing, and so on. Your feelings for him will grow stronger and stronger and if he tells you that he don't feel the same it will CRUSH you, especially to see him with someone else. That's all that I can give you for now. Be strong and when you get to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang in there!! Good Luck!
2007-03-02 20:13:54 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Chocolicious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he love you? ...If he does it doesn't matter to him that you may be emotionally unstable, he will want you anyway. If you really love him then you will put your insecurities aside. Understand? being emotionally unstable is all in your head. Don't think that way and you wont be.
2007-03-02 20:09:48 · answer #3 · answered by Ronnita W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that if he really you i wont care if your messed up or not and you I don't can emotionally unstable all I can tell you to do is follow your heart do what is best for you ^_^
2007-03-02 20:06:39 · answer #4 · answered by dominique g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop "self-sabotaging" your relationship. If you keep worrying about things that you think are going to happen, they will. You will start to think things that aren't really there are happening, such as he's thinking you are crazy. You're going to drive yourself crazy worrying while he has no idea what's going on. You just need to relax a little bit and let go. Things will work out if you don't keep worrying about how emotionally unstable you are.
2007-03-02 20:05:45 · answer #5 · answered by lifesaverjellybeans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are that screwed up, then you two should take a break from each other while you work on your issues.
No one deserves to be with someone who has a ton of issues. It only makes the relationship very hard to maintain.
2007-03-02 20:08:13 · answer #6 · answered by brotherb95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if Paul loves you he wouldn't care and understand you. Everyone is special in there own way, even you. Maybe it's meant to be. Who knows. Give him a shot.
2007-03-02 20:07:16 · answer #7 · answered by Robby M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he know that u love him? if not then tell him. ask him out. do anything to get u guys together just not something too extreme. and whether u get w/ him or not, u need to get help w/ ur emotions by asking him or just asking anyone 4 help. it's not good to deal w/ things like that on ur own.
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2007-03-02 20:09:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow this is a problem, but i think this guy paul worths the risk of asking him out, or at least be flirty to he ask you out, just try dont be shy, really it works, and don't worry if you break up cause at least you have tried
2007-03-02 20:06:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all never think of youself as a negative. I think you need to pull yourself together and just be with him and be yourself so that he can like you for you and not something you're trying to be
2007-03-02 20:08:38 · answer #10 · answered by Allison A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋