I am devistated that my bf of 2 years moved out last week, our relationship has been having a lot of problems. To ease the pain, we both decided that we will keep in contact with each other and maybe go out to dinner sometime. We work complete opposite shifts and he has his kids every weekend, so I dont see any time that we will be able to spend together. Do you think it is too soon for me to go out to clubs as a single? I need to do something, or I will just cry myself to sleep at night. I have nobody to hang out with. My life has been him for 2 years and now I'm lost. What should I do?
2007-03-02 11:55:56 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No its not too soon you go out cause you feel ready to. Just dont do it cause your looking for a rebound cause that wont work well it will at the time but then when you wake up in the morning reality will still be there to greet you. So do it for the right reasons and cause your ready to. Anyways... it will take time for you 2 get over him but you can only let time do its thing.
Try taking up new things like maybe a pottery class or... painting or something start something new 2 start off a clean slate as a single person. And enjoy friends company
Take it easy mate :)
And remember to get over someone you gotta fully let go of them
Good Luck mate :)
2007-03-02 12:04:28 · answer #1 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is going to be difficult for you to go out at first because you may have a lousy time and then come home and cry more thinking that is what you will have to face from now on. If you are going to go out, go out without expectations. Plan ahead on seeing couples together and not having the time of your life. OR.....invite some girlfriends over (and maybe even guy friends too) and play games. If you are not ready for any of it, go to the video store and rent an awesome movie.....get yourself a pizza.....and eat the whole thing while watching it. Pamper yourself! We have all been through this. It will take time but everything will be fine.
2007-03-02 12:00:49 · answer #2 · answered by theartisttwin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay hunny ive had this problem except that we werent together for two years but i know it hurts and i know your sad.
i suggest ice cream and movies with your girlfriends
dont move onto other guys yet cuz they could try to take
advantage of you since this is such a venerable time for you
you said you have no one to hang out with if you have any close cousins or any friend which im sure you do just go out and have some fun try and keep your mind not constantly on it. im not saying to not think about it because in the long run that just makes things worse. i hope you feel better. i know its hard and its going to be. i hope this helps
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2007-03-02 12:01:16 · answer #3 · answered by Miss LisSandra =] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yess Girl, that's the best thing u can do. Don't stay at home by urself when u don't have to. Bacause the only thing u are going to do is think about him. u have to keep urself occupied, u know what i mean? Well I hope u really go out and have fun life is short so don't waste ur time.
2007-03-02 12:03:07 · answer #4 · answered by Ivy A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and have fun. Dont waste your life waiting for something that might never come back. 2 Years is a long time, but you will get over it.
2007-03-02 11:59:00 · answer #5 · answered by TEFMLB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hellz no boo if u stay in the house too much u will start to feel regrets so go out and have a good time but dnt have such a good time and drink yourself to death because u miss him e smart about ya **** and no go out and forget that sorry bastard
~have Fun~ Smile
2007-03-02 11:58:54 · answer #6 · answered by nana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Hes The One That Left You! Go Out And Have Fun!
2007-03-02 11:58:47 · answer #7 · answered by XoXoLOvEoXoX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put it like this.. do u want the stress or do u wanna not have **** to worry about.. cuz i tell u what, being single.. ive been doing fine... the one time i actually felt like i liked a girl, it was horrible.. I hated those feelings of being trapped or thinking about them, u dont wanna do ****.. f**k that. Thats too much.
GO OUT! GET THA HELL OUT OF THE HOUSE! call ur friends.. its going down this weekend.. u know what? cuz i said so haha
wassup st. ruger... i see we on the same page here.. :)
2007-03-02 12:02:23 · answer #8 · answered by pdtpatrick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and release all that anger...when you'll be the next day,maybe you'll come up with an idea.
Go to the clubs and have fun but don't you f*** another guy,the truth will set you free.
2007-03-02 12:02:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and have a good time. You only live once why not be happy while you have that one chance. I hope things work out for you and you can get over this and find someone who will treat you good.
2007-03-02 12:02:01 · answer #10 · answered by Poster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋