2007-03-02 11:51:28 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well honestly i would always choose a bestfriend over a boy because your friend will be that person there for you when the guy screws you over (but you also shouldn't have to choose between them)...but anyways is their a reason that your friend hates him? like is it a good reason or does she just not like him because she doesn't want to..? Maybe she's jealous if your giving more time or attention to him than her. It also could be that she has a gut feeling that he's bad news and doesn't want you to get your feelings hurt. The best adivice i can give is for them to get to know each other better and build a friendship between them.
I hope this helped-sorry its kinda confusing.
2007-03-02 11:55:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I am going through the same thing right now. To be honest with you well my opinion there is nothing that you can really do about that. I feel that you cannot choose your bestfriend over your boyfriend nor vice versa. But there is a reason why your bf hates your boyfriend. If she/he really cares for you she/he should be happy that you are happy. She just going to have to deal with the fact that you are with your boyfriend and he is not going nowhere no time soon. But I do say this if the reason is good enough of why she hates him sit yourself down and question yourself as to whether or not you should be with him.
2007-03-02 11:58:30 · answer #2 · answered by Sabrina R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if the relationship ends, who are you going to turn to if you end up pushing her away because you're insisting on dating him?
I mean I can understand not wanting to lose him, but friends are more important than relationships. At least that's the way I feel.
In your situation I would try and find out if there's anyway to fix it, if not you could try and give them equal time but good luck with that, I can tell you from experiance that won't work. I hate saying dump him as advice, but if you've been friends for a LONG time I mean not a year or two but more than three or four years then I would probably if I were you.
2007-03-02 11:57:40 · answer #3 · answered by Siren 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember, you knew your best friend before your boyfriend. I was in the same situ. my best friend's boyfriend was a player and he knew I knew, so he used to tell my best friend I was just jealous etc. In the end my best friend and I were not talking and she even accused me of wanting to be with him. Eventually I pulled myself out of the situation, she told me they broke up when he was dating / messing with some girl (I knew about this but chose to say nothing). All I am saying, is don't lose a valuable friendship over a boyfriend - men come and go - and some friends are worth keeping. Obviously mine wasn't!
2007-03-02 12:00:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bestfriend had this boyfriend that i absolutely hated... things usually don't work out if your bestfriend doesn't like your boyfriend
things either go sour between you and your bf or your boyfriend
is the reason your friend doesn't like your boyfriend a good reason? for me and my bestfriend i was really right for not liking him and know that they are not together she always tells me that she wish she had listened to me
2007-03-02 11:58:10 · answer #5 · answered by co 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got rid of my best friend after 30 years after he started making negative comments about my then girlfriend.
Three years and a marriage later, I know I made the right choice.
2007-03-02 11:56:33 · answer #6 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cant work it out, think about this: who do I like more? Your friendship could be very strong and you dont want some guy to get in the way of it. But what if you love your boyfriend to death and your friend is just standing in the way. get ride of one of them, you chose which one.
2007-03-02 11:55:59 · answer #7 · answered by Your Add Here! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL then maybe u sh0uld tell ure B0yfreind and then tell y0ur b0 yfreind cause if ure B0yfreind is a GeeK 0R A Nerd wich i d0nt think s00 ,,, u sh0udl make ure best freind give u 1 0 REASONs ab0ut wats r0ng wiht himm
2007-03-02 11:54:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let them spend some time together alone without you there. I'm sure there's some jealousy going on. It often happens in triads. Have you been friends with your best friend for longer than you've been going out with your boyfriend? If so, she's probably feeling displaced.
2007-03-02 11:54:22 · answer #9 · answered by lillimac 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with Ben Dover.
But I have to add the setting up of a video camera streamed on the internet.
If you're over eighteen, that is.
2007-03-02 11:55:57 · answer #10 · answered by megahot megababe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋