Not to sound conceited or anything but I`ve gotten
really really pretty since a few years ago. I`ve changed
alot. Both in & out.
Now that I`m comfortable with myself I told my crush I liked him
& he doesn`t like me.
My friend asked him if he thought I was cute & he said "no."
I`m hurt, I can`t change anymore...
I`m happy with myself..
Help?
2007-03-02 11:45:23 · 17 answers · asked by Taylor. 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're happy with yourself then you have all that you need. Don't worry about the guy: either he is lying, or he is not the right guy for you. Honestly the most important thing is that you are comfortable with yourself. If this is the case then you can't be dissappointed or crushed no matter what, and people will always have respect for you because you have respect for yourself. So... yayyy you for the win.
2007-03-02 11:51:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did the same thing.
Don't wait for him.
You could do so much better.
I bet there is a wonderful guy right infront of you,but you can't see if.
Because, I had this huge crush on this one guy at my school and I told him, but he didn't like me back. I waited to long for him. Then one day I went to my best friend's party and I met this guy and he goes to my school. He was funny, cute, smart, and so much more. And now I'm going out with him and don't even know why I had that crush on the other guy.
Hope I helped.
2007-03-02 19:55:13 · answer #2 · answered by baylee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you just move on. You never know you may have been paying so much attention on pleasing your crush that you haven't been able to see if another cute guy has his eye on you. If he doesn't like you for you then to hell with him. He obviously doesn't know what he's missing and need to get a clue. Go out and have fun you've changed for the better dont waste all that hard work on a guy whose blind. Go party do things you wouldn't have done before.
2007-03-02 19:53:02 · answer #3 · answered by Alli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say to yourself oh well and move on.
You can't make anyone like you. You just can't. All that will do is hurt you more.
He was a crush, and just that, a crush. You'll have more. There are more fishes in the sea. Start looking for other guys. Find someone that does think you are cute, someone that will like you for who you are.
2007-03-02 19:50:59 · answer #4 · answered by Dublock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need help! If you feel beautiful, then you ARE beautiful! Those boys do like you i bet, and they dont want to show it! Girl, if youre comfortable with yourself then don't try to change. I'm happy for you, and dont ever listen to rude things that others say, because they're probably jealous of you AND your confidence. good luck with the rest of your life.
2007-03-02 19:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by TheyCallMeClaire© 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah..it's hard to get rejected. However, you have to just move on to something..better. Do you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you? I mean sometimes you just can't change how people feel....Just be happy in who you are and what you believe in..don't change that. You are attractive and smart..so you'll meet someone soon. Don't let this get you down because if he doesn't like you someone else will.........He's a loser anyways because he missed out on being with you!
2007-03-02 20:48:19 · answer #6 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lemme tell you this RIGHT NOW: Don't ever judge your self-esteem or self-confidence by how many guys like you. It's excellent that your'e still happy with yourself.
If he don't like you, well, he can kick rocks. Trust me, there's someone that likes you, and you'll find them. I know you're hurt but...life goes on. Enjoy being yourself, and you'll attract the right person. You're the only person you have to live your entire life with.
2007-03-02 19:52:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations on being happy with yourself!
That' so great!
Move on to the next guy - the time and place just aren't right for this guy.
Nothing you need to do - you asked and he said no thank you. OK then, next!
2007-03-02 19:52:32 · answer #8 · answered by Stan W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if a boy doesn't love you for who you are then he isn't worth it. I also think that if a boy only likes you for the way you look then he also isn't worth it. Just be patient, someday you will meet someone who completely adores you and loves everything about you.
2007-03-02 20:04:07 · answer #9 · answered by somedaywillcome 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw him to the curb and move on! He will regret it one day. Plenty of cute guys out there for you. He is not worth your time.
2007-03-02 19:51:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋