i am a loner who likes to learn and deal with anything out of the ordinary. iv had a cold past that to this day i try to understand and run away from, i love to feel anything that tells me im still alive. i have hardly any emotions or i never use them. i have wants to do do things that i can never do because they are impossible, i want to do things that could save lives but could get me hurt or die in the process like an superhero... so am i okay?
2007-03-02 11:30:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
I don't know what you mean by "okay". I think that you are okay enough to live a decent life but I think that in order to feel even better and more whole you need to find out how to deal with your past. Your past seems to plague you to the extent that you feel the need to avoid everything that reminds you of it. You cannot live forever like this. Eventually you are going to have to face this issue. I understand that you want to feel alive but the approach you are taking is not the best way. You are inadvertently evading important aspects of living such as feeling emotion. Don't think that the things you want are impossible; everything is possible as long as you put your mind to it and believe you can. It's your mind that's limiting you more than anything else. You feel as if you want to help other people and save lives but what I think you need to focus on right now is saving your own. Please seek psychiatric assistance and don't feel ashamed to ask for help. Anyone can bury themselves in a hole and the only to get out is to ask for a helping hand. You can engage in a therapy group and/or read books such as Beloved by Toni Morrison to realize that you are not alone and other people understand the situation you are going through.
2007-03-02 11:41:14 · answer #1 · answered by Trying To Be Helpful 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you're ok. It's not wrong for you to have dreams, it's not wrong for you to want to run away from your past. It's not wrong for you to want to feel alive. Just stay focused on what you want in life. You obviously have more emotions than you think you do. You seem to be very passionate about a few things here, so look at that. That is a good thing.
2007-03-02 19:53:31 · answer #2 · answered by cheeseprincess10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't really what to say you joking? I hope so if not you far to serious and should lighten up,enjoy your life don't do things for other people do it for yourself why would you? know a bit (i think) where you coming from theres allot people that had not such good experiences or youth.. that's not an excuse if you really want to be tough go for it do the extreme if necessary.. go bungee jumping or gliding, diving go on a Holiday a year off safe money whats need for it go somewhere meet different people that's what YOU NEED and its a good thing don't spoil it to people that don't Evan notice here ... good luck and have a great adventure
2007-03-02 19:43:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sure there are tons of people just like you out there in the world. theres A LOT of people out there so chances are your not alone. the good thing about this situation is that you know the problem already. you've admitted that you have a problem. now, solving it might take some time. you might want to see a specialist just so you can talk to someone face to face about it. they can help you release those feelings deep down and help you. good luck
2007-03-02 19:34:46 · answer #4 · answered by one&only<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you're a depressed person. but the fact that you want to help others is a good thing. sadly, i don't think that you're a superhero (so don't jump off of any buildings). you're okay (but you may want to see a psychologist).
2007-03-02 19:37:07 · answer #5 · answered by ^_^ ♥ §atsuki_☼ushiza ♥ ^_^ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, sounds normal to me. Hope you learn some caution, though, unless you'd really like to die young.
2007-03-02 19:33:39 · answer #6 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is you're a teenager. Perfectly normal. Stick it out a few years and you'll be fine!
2007-03-02 19:35:35 · answer #7 · answered by dadalus23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think ur unique and that's what you wanna do...if we had all the same people in this world it would be crappy...sometimes solo is best...everybody has a past or a darkside...it's ok!!!
2007-03-02 19:33:34 · answer #8 · answered by jojo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SURE! what ever float your boat! as long as you arnt killing anyone or ripping ears off of bunnies!
2007-03-02 19:33:57 · answer #9 · answered by kiss the cook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think so. Get laid or see a pshycologisht.
2007-03-02 19:41:09 · answer #10 · answered by Livin it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋