She called me after years of not talking to me and aplogized for what she did to me. I guess because what she did to me happened to her as well. But she said she wanted to meet up? now that I didn't understand but i went along with anyways. I meet her once for about an hour after years of not talking to each other and now I can't get her of my mind. I had been with other girls after her and was even in love with one of them. but I still can't get her of my mind? I don't know why she wanted to meet up? I mean am I looking too much into this? I loved this girl when were together. When she left I was mad at her. but after years when she called I just couldn't stop thinking about her.
2007-03-02 11:29:54 · 12 answers · asked by Cj 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well seems like you have forgaven her for what she's done to you! maybe she needs to know that and I think 99% she wants to get bak with you! see if she will want to go with you and then you will know for sure from the way she acts or talk to you ! mayben even after sometime you can ask her? Just be honest with her about how you feel for her and all, she needs to know that.
Good luck, maybe she IS the one for you after all :)
2007-03-02 11:34:54 · answer #1 · answered by Scorpio Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-08 07:04:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, well, well....what goes around comes around...and with that saying she probaly find out all to well what it feels like to be cheated on, or get dumped, so that person can pursue another relationship, just because of the newness or anticipation of it....She's not asking to meet up with u for no reason, she has a reason....First u need to reevaluate what went wrong in the 1st place to make yall break up, what was she missing, what is something that u stopped doing, or what? Then u need time to process her reasons why she said these things to you. People sometimes change, and sometimes they dont..they appear to but when it gets going and she has u hooked again, and BAM!! shes leaving again. U have to decide what u want, ur in control now, not her! Voice ur opinion, tell her that she hurt u, and ur not for games anymore. And please take it slow, try to hold off on the sex until at least a month, I mean u've already had sex with her right,so u already know what its gonna feel like, so just get to know her, talk to her, be intimate without sex..and u have to Trust her, and communicate openly and truly!! GOOD LUCK!!
2007-03-02 11:43:48 · answer #3 · answered by beerdrinker3423 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She must obviously have some feelings towards you, or she would have not called. I wouldn't rush her into anything, this might push her further away. Maybe you can call and see if she wants to go out to dinner. If she likes you, she will say yes... if not, she will make an excuse. Sounds good so far, good luck to you.
2007-03-02 11:34:49 · answer #4 · answered by rebekah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hum...maybe she just needed a friend? Not sure, have you called back to see if she wants to hook up again? Why not, try it. Doesn't sound like you have anything to lose. Relationships are weird. It may work...it may not. My best advice is be as laid back as you can. Maybe your intensity freaks her out.
2007-03-02 11:34:53 · answer #5 · answered by intrigue899 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it might be the right person but not the right time-----also sometimes we need time to grow-however if you want to give it another chance keep and eye out for signals that she might he dishonest to you or hurt you again. Use your better judgment and follow your heart (and BRAIN).
2007-03-02 11:39:04 · answer #6 · answered by EZMZ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, maybe you should tell her how you feel, if you don't you will regret it...
I (secretly) hope my ex would come back to me after a couple of years, we are just soo angry at each other atm...
2007-03-02 11:36:10 · answer #7 · answered by Jasmina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know.....talk to her. How in the WORLD will you ever know? Don't let this past love go untested....you have nothing to lose, really.
Good luck and good love!
2007-03-02 11:33:36 · answer #8 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could've called because she burned all of her other bridges and is now lonely.
2007-03-02 11:35:26 · answer #9 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her. it really bothers me how people always try to beat around the bush and never truly say what they mean or want to say... don't waste any time... just ask her.
2007-03-02 11:33:18 · answer #10 · answered by sweet short and sarcastic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋