i went to a kickback at a friends house. we were all sitting down drinking and having fun. there was this guy that was sitting across from me that kept on looking at me i just looked away.. lols. everytime he would look at me he would say to his friend that was sitting next to him that he thought i was cute.. he said it in away so that i can hear him say it. >< i thought it was cute and everytime i would look at him he would give this smile.. my friends told me to go for him.. one of my girlfriend over heard and she was very curious so she questioned him about me and he said he would go for me but age differances. im 16 and hes 20. age matters to him.. after my friend told me he said that i didnt want to go for him anymore. but they were telling mei should since imhalf way there. he said he would give me a chance not that he wouldnt.. HiS friends told me that he was a shy guy and that i should make them moves and talkto him and get to know him but its hard. what should do. im so lost.!
2007-03-02 11:25:05 · 8 answers · asked by Ldy_s15 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not up to me thouogh its up to him since age matters to him..but do u guys think he would change his mind if i still tryed..?
2007-03-02 11:34:39 · update #1
NO it doesn't i am currently in a GREAT relationship w/ someone who is considerably older, 7 years older. and i've been with them for quite sometime maybe i was 18 and he was 25 and AHEM but Statuatory Rape can only be considered if the parents do not consent of the relationship...but i say go for it sometimes you feel more comfortable knowing that the person that you trust and may soon love can be your confidante and that just maybe he went through the same issues...As a girl taking the first step is not abnormal in this day and age i say GO FOR IT. GOOD LUCK>>>
2007-03-02 12:00:29 · answer #1 · answered by 2763 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is 24 and u are 20 i would say go for it, but he's 20 and u are 16, u can get him in trouble when u guys get really close, and ur parents find out, ooops, does statutory r*pe sound familiar to you. I know the feeling i was 16 once, oh how i love the attention of a 20 y/o, but spare him of the trouble, wait till u are 18, if he still likes u then go for it.
2007-03-02 19:35:32 · answer #2 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this case i know it is hard. I have gone out with a guy that is older...You i think one do not ever make the first moves. If he wants to get to know you then he will make the move. You can be nice and flirt just make sure that you know what you are getting into. If you have a good friend relationship then you guys can proceed to beocoming bf and gf just make sure you set your standerds with him. No man should ever take andvantage just because he is older. Also if you get involved with a guy at this age make sure its because you want a relationship and not just a fling. Hope things work out well for you!
2007-03-02 19:35:08 · answer #3 · answered by sweet and simple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As I see it age really doesn't matter. I'm 41 and my wife is considerably older. We have a great relationship. I have had a problem with woman asking me why I take my ma every were I go but that works on them not me. You do what you think is right, nobody said you have to jump his bones. Talk to the guy and see what he's like than go from there.
2007-03-02 19:33:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you say you are 16 and he 20? That's age differences is quite normal.
2007-03-02 19:38:17 · answer #5 · answered by Bonzon C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not a big age difference, when you're 18 it won't matter at all.
2007-03-02 19:32:31 · answer #6 · answered by Katie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, i think you should just go on a date with him and see how he acts. If you don't like him then just end it there. Take chances. They're fun.
2007-03-02 19:31:45 · answer #7 · answered by a 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am a big fan of dating older guys! (my boyfriend is 13 years older than me).
i think you shouldn't care what others think/say and you should go for it.
you don't know what you may be missing.
goodluck.
2007-03-02 19:30:27 · answer #8 · answered by JAY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋