My boyfriend kinda ignores me these days we don't always talk like we use to we talk for only like twice a day for like 3 minutes we use to talk like 5 times just to say we love each other or text just to say we love each other but now its different. Do you think that he just needs a little time like a boys time cause i really really love him and he says he do too.
2007-03-02 11:22:04 · 15 answers · asked by lil babe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it bothers you, which I think it does, you should ask him what`s going on.
2007-03-02 11:26:29 · answer #1 · answered by Yuki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,
From experience in my high school life and life in general. Once people start to get used to each other, they start to not necessarly drift away, but they get used to each other more and more, and the need to impress one another doesn't happen as much, this is particularly the case when the relationship hits at about the 3 month mark. Not to worry I think, try to do more things together that you both enjoy. Hope this helps.
Wee-Man
2007-03-02 19:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by boychuka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how old you both are........... he may need some guy time with his buddys.....absence makes the heart grow fonder. Just some friendly advice, if u both talk and see each other less, will usually make the relatioinship stronger. U both don't want to smother each other that will never work. Yea, and another thing is how long you have been seeing each other.
2007-03-02 19:31:29 · answer #3 · answered by BIG BEN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be afraid it's really natural. Relationships can't go on forever like they start, otherwise it's a little suffocating for guys. He probably needs to have a normal independent life + a gf at the same time, if you both like each other you should'nt be afraid.
2007-03-02 19:26:49 · answer #4 · answered by Ash L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you don't want to hear this but I am pretty sure he is slowly breaking away. He may be giving his phone attention to someone else. That's young love for you. Maybe you should start ignoring him and see what happens. His true feelings should come through then.
Good luck.
2007-03-02 19:28:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something similar happened to me with my boyfriend. He just needed a little bit of space, or so he said. So soon after I started ignoring him for a while. He came rushing back.
Maybe you should play hard to get for a little while...
2007-03-02 19:25:52 · answer #6 · answered by NiKkY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
excitement is over, give him space, if he misses you then he will communicate more, dont be too available, even with friends, the excitement and the hoopla of it all, sometimes deminishes for some reasons and that s normal, so dont sweat it, if he really loves u he will find time to be with u often, but personally infrequent contacts shorter chat times, usually indicates that the fire is gone.
2007-03-02 19:27:08 · answer #7 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he's a bit in the "I'm not sure I really want to spend my whole life with this girl" stage, but it's probably just boy time as well. There's lots of possibilities, really, but if he doesn't want you, and if you really love him, you should let him go. =]
2007-03-02 19:27:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is slowing down.
You'll need some sort of spark to rekindle it.. or just some water to put it out completely.
If you're young, just forget about it.
Don't worry and don't be upset if you "break up".
Sounds like you haven't been together that long..
2007-03-02 19:30:49 · answer #9 · answered by megahot megababe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but he is done with you. He doesn't want to hurt you, so he is backing off softly. I'd say move on. Forget playing games as someone suggested. You are just postponing the inevitable!
2007-03-02 19:25:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe. Nobody likes to be crowded all the time. Just relax.If you truly loves him, this will help.Hope this helps.
2007-03-02 19:29:54 · answer #11 · answered by angel9242004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋