he is talking to them, with them,and asking them to go out with them and is telling me he is a home-school tutor when he is really cheating on me!
2007-03-02 11:19:39 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What do you do? Dump him! Don't let him ruin your self esteem. Being alone for awhile is not as bad as spending years trying to recover from being abused, cheated on, etc. Please, do the same...find someone else. Maybe you'll be more successful than he is at the 'game.'
2007-03-02 11:23:48 · answer #1 · answered by intrigue899 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK so he is cheating so what are you gonna do about it? Start looking and talking to other guys and go out with them if you want. Tell him you are tutoring friends.
2007-03-02 11:23:36 · answer #2 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry to say it, but i think you should move on. I've been in relationships that are similar to the one your in and even if he stops doing what he's doing you'll never be able to fully regain the trust you once had in him. It might be hard to leave him because people in long relationships get really attached and used to the other person but if this is hurting you then there's no other choice cause speaking as a guy when a guy wants something he'll get it whether he sneaks or does it straight up.
2007-03-02 11:26:53 · answer #3 · answered by Alex H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kick the loser to the curb, and find a boyfriend who respects you enough to not cheat on you.
Remember, it is not cheating to "look" at others, it is the actions beyond looking that count.
Good luck and have a good night.
2007-03-02 11:32:02 · answer #4 · answered by Sue F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You move on .
He is disrespectful to you and will continue to be this way.
If he's doing it now its not going to just stop.
Be glad you know whats up .
A lot of guys are not ready to stay true with one gal.
But not true of all of them.
Especially as they get older into thier late twenties.
It hurts but lose the loser and find another guy who makes you his everything.
2007-03-02 11:26:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If u know that he is cheating on u then why r u asking me what to do. Duh! u break up with him. U deserve better, don't u think? Unless u r so desparate to be in a relationship that u won't let him go u need to stop letting him use you.
2007-03-02 11:24:53 · answer #6 · answered by Vince R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, what you need is a boyfriend who appreciates and respects you, not a player. Find a real boyfriend!
2007-03-02 11:23:05 · answer #7 · answered by Hammer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start talking to other guys in the same way. Then maybe he understand how you feel.
2007-03-02 11:28:14 · answer #8 · answered by Bonzon C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
GIRL YOU SAID IT, HES CHEATING-------> SOLUTION=DUMP HIM
dont even give him the time of day to talk to him about it.
2007-03-02 11:26:07 · answer #9 · answered by Cher B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, Why do you want to be with someone that does not want to be with you! I think like that and I believe it will get you far in life!
2007-03-02 11:23:29 · answer #10 · answered by camopaiser 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋