well i asked her out and she said i'll think about it and then after a week her friends told me she said no. But after that whole thing she began to be really shy around me and we don't really talk anymore. she looks at me alot during class and looks away when i look. did she say no to hide that she liked me? this has been going on since december. i'm just really confused now. does she like me? shes also moving in 2 months. i just don't know what to do
2007-03-02 11:16:35 · 35 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You better start hoppin on that train real fast then. Let your balls drop and go ask her.
2007-03-02 11:19:57 · answer #1 · answered by scammaj12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay best advice i can think of for you is number 1. after saying no .. (this has happened to me) she might be rethinking her answer i mean girls always change there minds. and thats why she looks at you and looks away. COMMON SENSE! and her beeing shy around you is cooos hint hint. "she maybe has a crush" lol well yeah i mean being shy is totally different from being a jerk and a girls a jerk to a guy when they don't like him at all.. and lastly shes moving in two mmonths . where? if its far then um i don't really think you should do anything but if shes moving to somwhere close or just changing schools. then you could still like try to talk to her. get her number DONT WAIT LAST MINUTE!!
-- good luck =]
wish you the best with her
2007-03-02 11:24:32 · answer #2 · answered by simplexdisaztr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out again. Just to hang like friends would at the movies or the mall. But this time tell her to make sure she answers and not your friend. She might be shy and really does like you. Then you add in the fact that she is moving. She might putting distance between you because of the move. Go out as just freinds and see what happens. You just have to make sure when you ask her, that she gives you an answer then and doesn't pull that friend intervention again.
2007-03-02 11:21:53 · answer #3 · answered by littledragoon80 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move along, nothing to see here. Firstly, "i have to think about it" is kind of a red flag. If she was interested, she would have said yes. Secondly, she cant even tell you herself? Thats another red flag. Shes probably kind of embarassed about how things went, thats why shes afraid to make eye contact. But realistically, disappearing for a week and then having her friends tell you she doesnt want to go out with you a week later should be a pretty clear sign that she is not interested. Or at the very least, is not worth your time.
2007-03-02 11:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by Shane of the dead 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it could be 2 reasons
1. she knew she was moving so she said no, knowing that starting a relationship would only hurt since she was gonna move anywayz...
2. she doesn't like and she acts like that becuz she doesnt know how you feel after that rejection, but its too akward to just ask you..
solution:
you got 2months to gather up some b. a. l. l. s. if you dont already have some and ask her...what do you have to lose? even if she says no, then it wont matter that much cuz she's moving right?
2007-03-02 11:22:51 · answer #5 · answered by dall4wwf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok dude, move on. She is just doing that because 1. She doesn't like you but knows that you like her so that makes her... I dunno feel weird. 2. She does like you and doesn't want anyone to know or she just thinks your too not something for her. Long term relationships don't last and someone ends up cheating on someone n e ways. I am sorry thats some girls can be so confusing when she is gone, the confusingness will go away. :) Hope I helped.. good luck dude. PEACE
2007-03-02 11:23:10 · answer #6 · answered by DDR QUEEN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably shy, yes, but some girls do that when they found out they've been liked by someone they either see as a friend or nothing at all.
But then again, she does want to be with you but she's not ready for a relationship.
;] Either way, you'll find your own girl.
2007-03-02 11:21:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is walk right up and talk to her. Tell her exactly what you're thinking (like what you wrote here) and ask her. Girls are kinda funny like that sometimes, they protect their hearts by "shying" away but inside, they're usually dying for you to approach them again. It could be that she just doesn't know how to handle something like this and is just kinda waiting it out, but if you have good intentions, then eventually she'll feel safe enough to open up to you. Patience and sincerity is key. Good luck.
2007-03-02 11:21:06 · answer #8 · answered by lovenhatewtf 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's unfortunate. Next time try to talk to a girl directly and not through her "servants".
Well at least find out where she's moving to. Maybe it will work out after all.
2007-03-02 11:32:42 · answer #9 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might be a little scared that is probably why she said no and that she is being shy around u. she might like u, but doesn't want to get really close to u b/c she is moving. talk to her alone and ask her why she said no and why she is being shy around u.
2007-03-02 11:25:04 · answer #10 · answered by Autumnkins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she had HER FRIENDS reject you for her, she's obviously a waste of time.
That's ridiculously immature and childlike to do.. so why waste further time on her?
She probably said no because she didn't like you when you asked and is acting like this now because she knows you like her.
And she'll probably do more things to attract your attention.. even though she may not like you.
Girls play weird games.. I think it's best to leave this one alone.
2007-03-02 11:23:25 · answer #11 · answered by megahot megababe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋