My best friend and i have been friends for about 3 years now - he's liked me forever and i just started to fall for him. We don't wanna rush things because we think we're too young (early 20's).
- Whenever i go to sleep, i always have to hug/hold on to my pillow
- the first thing i think about when i wake up, last thing i think about before i got to sleep
- i get the "warm blanket" feeling - you're just soo comfortable and you never want to leave
- every TOUCH gives me chills and butterflies
- when we kissed, it was just SIMPLY sweet - nothing sexual
- everytime i see him, i SMILE :)
- when he holds me, i feel soooo relaxed
- i LOVE making him smile, holding, hugging, kissing him
- i like to annoy him :) haha
the thing is, i have to get over him in order to move on from this and for us to become stronger friends...the thing is, i don't want to. I'm afraid if i get over him, this feeling will be gone forever...and i'll never like him again...
2007-03-02 11:16:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't see why you "have to get over him" if your still together. You said you had already been friends for 3 years, seems to be like the foundation for a strong relationship has already been laid. Stay with him. He is not something you can just put up in a shelf for later use. If you broke up with him and he found someone else, is it something you would get over easily?
2007-03-02 11:26:54 · answer #1 · answered by velmicro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that you are in love with him. If the feeling is mutual I say go for it. The best relationship starts off as friends. So the fact that you are friends first is a good thing. He just might be your soulmate. Don't let a good thing get away. A good man is hard to find.
2007-03-02 19:42:30 · answer #2 · answered by kwaniar513 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! It is me again! It what u are feeling is really what i am experiencing... The same as i really want to move on.. It always seem her image is clouding my vision.
This is a feeling that you and I are in fact kind of "enjoying" But we know once this feeling is gone.. We feel not have this unqiue kind of feeling again.. This is a funny feeling of Love.. which is totally an ALIEN to us and very special. It make us Happy, Sad, Agony and Joy. This is all feeling in one.
2007-03-04 05:21:44 · answer #3 · answered by Fred 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres no such thing as rushing but theres is what we call being to late dont let that be the case your in love go for all and leave only smiles in your life track not conclusions that your too early
2007-03-02 19:25:54 · answer #4 · answered by luby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he could be your brother?? Suggest you get a cat, and enlarge your social circle, there are a lot of young men out there who want to meet a loving girl like you seem to be. Best wishes
2007-03-02 19:23:23 · answer #5 · answered by tylernmi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the flow. it will definately pay off. take time. savor the feeling, and streach it out but dont lose it. spend as much time together as you guys can take without getting sick of eachother. make it a casual relationship. be honest with eachother. it always works... being honest.
-i hope this helped!
2007-03-02 19:23:11 · answer #6 · answered by sarah t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best way to get over him is to go to bed with a few strangers
2007-03-02 19:21:29 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
enjoy it while it lasts cuz everyone falls OUT of love eventually
2007-03-02 19:19:14 · answer #8 · answered by canadians_are_imbeciles1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for him. sounds like fate.
2007-03-02 19:20:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for him!
2007-03-02 19:20:13 · answer #10 · answered by N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋