OK....ive been going out wit this girl for like 6 months and we been having a lot of trust issues but were finally starting to work it out and this guy that goes to our school has liked her forever and he has been flirting wit her and he asked her out wen i lift school today after i "talk" to him about backing off of her this morning.he is very small compared to me and he is kind of a outcast.....every body says i should fight him.....and he done other things that im not allowed to tell you about to my g....should i fight him?????
2007-03-02 11:11:51 · 8 answers · asked by Joe T. Pride 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nah, give the guy a break if he's an outcast...
If your girl tell him to leave her alone that should be enough.... if she doesnt than she's the problem not him.... if he continues to harass, then kick his ***.
2007-03-02 11:16:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO don't fight him. What kind of a thug are you? Attacking someone smaller than you, no less. That's just being a neanderthal bully, and your girlfriend won't respect you for giving in to violence. This is more about your ego than defending her honor.
It takes two to tango, buddy, and if your girlfriend is permitting his flirtations, you need to have a talk with her about respecting your relationship.
If he's really done such terrible things to her that you can't even mention them here, you could certainly turn him into the police or the principal or even his parents. Your desire for vigilante vengenance is NOT the same thing as justice.
Grow up and be the bigger man.
2007-03-02 19:20:52 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't believe fighting will solve anything. I don't know your girlfriend, but if my boyfriend (who is the jealous fighting type) were to ever fight anyone over me I would be VERY upset. Some girls like it when guys fight over them, but generally that's the type of girl that could get you in trouble, you don't need that in your life. I think that you need to ditch this girl if she isn't listening to your needs. If she continues to talk to this guy then she isn't listening to what you need out of this relationship and you should move on. If this other guy is giving her unwanted attention I would talk to someone, like a school counselor or you/her parents. She definitely doesn't need to be harassed, if that is what he is doing. Anyways, talk to your gf if you haven't and tell her you don't feel comfortable with her talking to him (you seem to have reasons for this especially if he doesn't back off knowing that she has a bf) and if she doesn't listen to her, move on. Find a girl that will listen. Just don't fight, it will only end up getting you in trouble, you shouldn't be getting into trouble over a girlfriend (she shouldn't want you in trouble either).
2007-03-02 19:25:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not fight him. Trust your girlfriend. You should be talking to her. She needs to be the one to tell him to back off not you!! She is leading him on and needs to put a stop to it. Plus it wont make you feel like anymore of a man to beat up someone weaker than you!! Stop listening to other people and grow a spine for heaven sake. Talk with your girl and if she wants him to back off then she needs to tell him. But for goodness sake you just leave him alone. If your girl loves you and you love her you have nothing to threatned about.
2007-03-02 19:20:25 · answer #4 · answered by HOT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...fighting never solves anything, and you could get into trouble. Try taking the high road. If she really likes you then she'll choose you. If she thinks you should fight for her(literally) then I think she wants attention. If you really like her, show it, but you shouldn't have to fight someone to prove it.
2007-03-02 19:17:54 · answer #5 · answered by Teel H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your girl, and see how she feels. Let her do the talking. Tell her how you feel. Fighting is only going to make him want to do it more, and if you lose you make an *** of yourself and you might lose your girl. So be smart about it. Talk to your girl.
2007-03-02 19:20:29 · answer #6 · answered by Brittany B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By fighting him you make an *** of yourself. Talk to her about your concerns when it comes to him and stop letting other people try to influence you on going and fighting him because its not worth it.
2007-03-02 19:16:23 · answer #7 · answered by jewell2578 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to fight him. Your girlfriend should put him in his place by telling him that you are her boyfriend, and she doesn't like it when he hits on her. Then she needs to ignore him if it continues.
2007-03-02 19:17:52 · answer #8 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋