ok well me and my ex boyfriend were going out last year for about 8 mounths or more and i broke up with him and then he asked me out agian this year and i said yes and we were going out for about a mounth and then we broke up agian because his friend told me somthing bad and it wasnt true but i let my anger take advanage of me and i broke up with him agian and i think i made a mistake because i think i still like him. me and him still talk were friends but when i talk 2 him on the phone after school i cant seem 2 get him out of mind for the rest of the day. He has a girlfriend but she just broke up with him. I wanna know if i should like him or if i should try 2 just be his friend. the thing that i hate is that he isnt that cuite but he has a great personality and it seems that he only acts goffy when he talks 2 me im like the only 1 he can exprece himself 2 and i think its so cuite. Some one plz help me i really need help!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-02 10:59:30 · 12 answers · asked by Soccerchick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So you like the dude. He likes you and the fact that you can act intimately with each other is a plus. All I see was miscommunication and bad timing. If you like each other, it's natural to be together. So quit thinking about it and call him or something before he finds someone else.
2007-03-02 11:03:56 · answer #1 · answered by lickthisup69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay
first you need to breath. (No i dont mean that in a rude way)
Its perfectly okay to like your ex. I really do think that you should talk to your ex. You shouldnt care if he isnt cute (my bf sure isnt) but i absolutely LOVE him. Thats what matters. It seems like your ex-bf has a great presonality and is a great guy. Thats what should matter. I think that talking to him will help. Also establish a kind of communication with our ex-bf. When you hear something, you should be able to go to him and ask if it is true, he should also be able to tell you the truth and be honest with you. And you should be able to stand by him no matter what is said is true or not. It seems also that he can talk to you, he may also want you to be that comfortable with him, telling him private things. You may be surprised how much he will start to trust you and you him, and how much closer you will get.
Take a chance
Talk to him, you may be surprised at what you hear from him
2007-03-02 11:14:44 · answer #2 · answered by Leelah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i hate it when i go out with someone and when we break up i still like them but i would never go back out with them cuz i think if there was a problem then that person isnt the right person but in this case that your friends and all i still think you guys could go out but i never said it would last long so if he would say yes if u ask him out he might just get dumped again
2007-03-02 11:04:20 · answer #3 · answered by dylangbball 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember that there was a reason you left in the first place. You like him probably because he is "safe" to you.
Not sure how old you are, but as a "veteran", there are definitely plenty of other fish in the sea.
2007-03-02 11:02:45 · answer #4 · answered by Sparky 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go for it. You both aren't dating anyone and just tell him how you feel. Instant message him if you don't want to talk in person. Or do it on the phone. Just say a third time is a charm
2007-03-02 11:03:13 · answer #5 · answered by dolphinnut798 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just stay in touch with him. That's the only way to find out if he's the right one for you.
2007-03-02 11:08:46 · answer #6 · answered by Bonzon C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK THIS IS HAPPENING TO ME TODAY SO IM NOT THE BEST HELP BUT I CAN SAY IF YOU REALLY LIKE HIM GO BACK OUT WITH. HIM TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT THATS WHAT I DID WITH MY GF.IF IT DOSEN'T WORK DONT WORRIE YOU SHOULD FORGET HIM.
2007-03-02 11:05:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!
2007-03-02 11:04:31 · answer #8 · answered by treversweet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fix grammar. okay... ummm.. no. same thing happened to me and it was on and off relationship, now we don't even talk because it's okward. or, BEST FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS.... just a suggestion. help, IM me: melrocks144
TRUST CHICKADEE
2007-03-02 11:04:49 · answer #9 · answered by Chickadee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him how you feel.And if all goes wrong you can still be friends.
2007-03-02 11:04:01 · answer #10 · answered by debralizjr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋