ok my friend just got a boyfriend and i didnt tell her that he was my last!!! and he keeps like touching me and touching my breasts and she doesnt no!!! and yesterday she was grounded so she couldnt go anywhere so i just wanted to get a smoothie with him. but when we got their we ended up having sex at my house!! should i tell her? will this ruin our friendship???
2007-03-02 10:57:29 · 29 answers · asked by KellyKelly Fan 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
i bet ... it wasn't so 'smoothie' after the smoothie huh, you naughty girl... but always remember that bad boyz dig bad girlz.
2007-03-02 10:59:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give me a break. This guy's all hands and you LET him sleep with you?!?! There was a reason you broke up--why are you having sex with someone you ended a relationship with?!
Yes, this could potentially ruin your friendship. Your friend would have to be very forgiving; first you aren't completely honest with her over your and her boyfriend's past history and his current behavior, and then you go out of your way to make sure you're alone with him. What did you think would happen?! Obviously, you don't respect your friend much or you would be able to say no and keep saying it until you have to scream 'rape'.
To answer your question, yes you should tell her. She deserves to know the kind of company she keeps. And if it does ruin your friendship, you have only yourself to blame. The most you can do is apologize for your deplorably selfish behavior and keep apologizing until she either forgives you or tells you to take a long walk off a short pier.
2007-03-02 19:03:35 · answer #2 · answered by shoujomaniac101 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all you should of told her that was your last boyfriend so you wouldn't be in this mess. Second, you should of told her you are that you are going to get a smoothie with her boyfriend and ask if it is OK. Last of all you should of never went to get a smoothie with your ex. Also you should tell her you slept with her man instead of her finding out. Of course it might ruin your friendship you slept with her man. She might never be your friend if she can't trust you again around her boyfriend there is no friendship without and dump you ex-boyfriend which makes her ex now. Or get back at you to see how you feel.
2007-03-02 19:09:33 · answer #3 · answered by A$!AN P3R$UA$!ON 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u can say goodbye to your friendship then. You broke up for a reason why the hell did u go and sleep with him. Would you like it if you friend done this to you? You both knew what you were doing so there is no excuse for you actions. You can tell her what happen but expect a slap of her. I feel sorry for your "friend" the two people she trusts have humiliated her. Nice work love hope your proud of your self.
2007-03-02 19:09:48 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I have been in this situation myself once upon a time. Sort of. the best advice I can give you is to tell her BEFORE he does. If he tells her first, it will make you look like the ultimate bad guy, instead of just half of the problem. My friend's bf told her before I did, and it caused major major issues. If you are truly her friend and you truly care about her, and she truly cares about you, you guys may be able to fix this. But you HAVE to be honest. And please...think about what you're doing next time. You can always find someone to have sex with. But good friends are truly hard to come by. Call your friend, tell her you need to talk, and get it over with. Deep breaths!
2007-03-02 19:41:15 · answer #5 · answered by Ang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly she does not deserve you as a friend or him as a boyfriend. Definitely should ruin your friendship, and yes you should tell her. If she gets mad at you, you should take what is coming to you. If she decides to stay friends with you, then that is strictly her choice.
2007-03-02 19:26:21 · answer #6 · answered by Reese G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm...First Of All If You really did care about ya'lls friendship You SOOO Would NOT have done that to her!!!
And Yeah you shopuld tell her bacause, even tho she'll be mad, i dont think she would want to continue being with a guy who is cheating on her and it would hurt worse if she found out later on in the relationship
2007-03-02 19:01:51 · answer #7 · answered by *Gina* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't tell your friend then he will sooner or later and as for it ruining your friendship it's a pity you didn't think about that while you were screwing her boyfriend and letting him touch you.
That's not something a decent friend would do.
2007-03-02 19:01:47 · answer #8 · answered by madamspud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her before she finds out from someone else. And yes it might ruin you friendship.
2007-03-02 19:00:34 · answer #9 · answered by borateen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that seems like a definition of friendship that I'm not familiar with,I doubt that this so called friendship will be ruined you actually have to have one first
2007-03-02 19:08:43 · answer #10 · answered by poet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i would tell her what an awful friend she has. If you were her friend you wouldn't have done that so i would tell her so she can get tested for std's because she is proably thinking he would not cheat on her.
2007-03-02 19:03:30 · answer #11 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋