I am engaged to this great guy, when were together things seem more then perfect. He lives about 2 hours away because of college, and in may he will be grad. and back home!...
The problem is, i have caught him several times in lies and flirting with his ex and a few other girls...
I know its not too big of a deal but it hurts to see him do that. He is always calling his ex girlfriend ( his 'first' ) babe and asking her to get on webcam. And this has just been in the past month. He sends her flirty messages all the time...Im sure he has done alot more that i dont know about.
I dont think he has cheated, i dont think i will ever know if he has though. i trust him, but he has been pushing my trust latley..
Ive told him it hurts me and he said he wouldnt flirt around anymore but i guess where he has lied i dont know weather to believe him...
What should I do? I just feel like im to far in a relationship to just break up, but i cant keep doing this all the time either.
Suggestions?
2007-03-02 10:55:40 · 7 answers · asked by Ashley B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him that if it doesn't stop then you have to break it off. if he is able to flirt like that and lie whos to say he hasn't cheated. before you marry you need to know your in a relationship that you can deal with day in and day out. if he is doing that stuff and knows how you feel about it and continues on doing so then you need to break it off.
2007-03-02 11:02:44 · answer #1 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound lik u dont even know u can trust him or not..
he said he wouldnt flirt anymore.. if u se he still flirt and made u hurt agin
should forget about this guy..move on..its not easy.. but there no reason to let him hurting u.. if he lov u, he shouldnt do that
2007-03-02 11:05:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that he's very childish and immature and not ready to be in a serious relationship with you.
Tell him this: "Either you'll straighten up your act or you'll go straight out of the door."
2007-03-02 11:00:29 · answer #3 · answered by Infinite 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's cheating on you sweetheart....maybe not in his pants but in his heart. and if he does that, he'll do her once the opportunity arises. Break off the 'engagement' until he's ready for one woman. And don't hold your breath for this guy.
2007-03-02 10:59:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! u deserve betta! dont go for his games. tell him striaght up wat u knoe and how u feel. tell him thats if hes nto readi to comit 2 u only then ur over. if u move on wit it itll only create more problem in the marraige, break it off now or make him change u deserve betta!
2007-03-02 11:07:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you think would happen at the end? Think...... break up, it won't last. looks like he's not interested in you, and he's a player! help, IM me: melrocks144
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2007-03-02 10:59:50 · answer #6 · answered by Chickadee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shoot me an instant message if u want to discuss this.
2007-03-02 11:01:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋