ok so theres this guy and me and him were like really good friends before but now we hardly even talk it all started in p.e he didnt talk to me and i dont know why but when we go to our next class he want to talk. ....... now we dont even talk and my friend likes him and i told her oh yeah u should go out with him if u like him i think u would make a good couple with him and i dont even know why i said that and to tell u the truth i dont even know if you like him becuse last year i use to like this kid and i was all crazy about him and i use to get all red when i saw him but with this guy its diffrent i dont get shy around him and i can be my self and stuff so anyway back to the story ,,,, we were sitting at the lunch tables and then i start crying because i see how they are flirting with eachother and i remember that what we use to do!! so i got upset. what should i do should i keep on talking to him or should i ignore him??? or what should i do???
2007-03-02 10:51:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well honey, you should your friend how you really feel and if shes your friend she'll back off for the sake of your friendship..and with him you should keep talking to him tell him how you feel and if he doesnt want to give you a try then dont worry about it..keep your head up and act like it doesnt even phase you..whatever you do..dont let them see u cry ok baby girl..
2007-03-02 10:58:32 · answer #1 · answered by jenndoe817 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well im goin throu the same thing! ok well start flurting wit him, and i knoe thats not so easy tod o but if u like him enought ull find a way! tell ur friend how u feel, but if u dont get nervous round him then maybe u2 should only be friends cuz i should get verous if u like the guys! best wishes always, did i help? if not tell me so i can give u more advice! good luck!
2007-03-02 18:58:00 · answer #2 · answered by krissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look youth, you are too young to have the worries of a stupid guy . Boys come and go. Don't hate, he likes your friend, not you. Ignore him, better yet both of them. One thing to remember: keep your friends close but keep your enemies closer. There are many other guys you can date out there.
2007-03-02 19:05:36 · answer #3 · answered by LT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem! The guy is like my best friend but he like flirts with me all the time so I cant tell if he likes me or not...Well back to your problem...I think that u should try to talk to him and go..."Why have you been acting so weird lately, u hav been acting weird to me and my friend too..." it worked for me now he guy is talking with me more and is being way nicer but I think it is mainly the way guys are.
2007-03-02 19:03:56 · answer #4 · answered by Nicole S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you sweetie? It sounds like you have some serious jealousy issues going on. Call him up and say I don't know why I acted like I did....I guess I'm jealous. What do you think?
2007-03-02 18:55:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u shouldnt of told her to holla at him if u like him.u got to b true to urself as well as others.so they will always no were u stand...and his not talkin to u cuz ur SHE"S around...and when she not around he want to talk and play around. ask him why is dat??and u only deal wid friends who has one face..got me??.well before things go to far wid them tell both how u feel and see if dat change things if not..LIFE DOES GO ON.. yeah easy said than done ,and only talk to him when u feel like it.but. from now on be true to ur self,and others and every thing else will ***.and if shes ur friend she should no u like him ,and dats OFF LIMITS TO HER...humm,THINK ABOUT IT...
2007-03-02 19:09:00 · answer #6 · answered by getithowyouwantit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First tell your friend how you feel. Then you can keep flirting with him if you want. you cant make him choose you or her if he doesnt like one of you he will ask the other out. it really sounds like you both like each other, ask him out if he doesnt ask you out.
2007-03-02 18:57:32 · answer #7 · answered by shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's hard to ignore someone you once had a relationship with. i'm going through the same scenerio as we speak. i tell myself it's over between us. i cared so much for my josh and all i want is him to be happy. with or without me. you can do the same.
2007-03-02 18:56:59 · answer #8 · answered by kandi b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He thinks you're not interested with him. That's why he moved on. That's what you should do. Move on, act normally. It's hard, but you've got to or you won't get anywhere.
2007-03-02 18:55:38 · answer #9 · answered by Eden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to him like at a party and say i wanna talk to you go to a bedroom or a private place then say hold on and go into a bathroom or closet get undressed(naked) and tackle him then strip him of his clothes and do it then he will know unless he is dumb that you like him..... hope that helped
this is what my friend says
ok sso this is all u do .......................... F**** HIM WHICH MEANS TO DO IT ALL NITE LONG
2007-03-02 18:57:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋