My husband recently began thinking about getting circumcised. Oddly enough i've never been with a circumcised man and didn't really know how to respond when he told me he was thinking about having it done? Is it really any different at all? Will lovemaking feel different? Has anyone been in a similar situation? Well any answers/advice would help really.
2007-03-02 10:49:39 · 22 answers · asked by Amanda 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Why would he think about that now? I never noticed any difference between men; my boyfriend thru high school wasn't, my husband is. I'd be more curious why he wants to do that, unless it's religious reasons, there isn't any physical reason why he needs to do it.
2007-03-02 10:54:15 · answer #1 · answered by chelebeee 5 · 4⤊ 2⤋
That is a good question. However, I have "gone down" on a guy who was not circumcised. I prefer the circumcised man than the other.It feels weird to me if the guy is not. Plus, it is actually healthier for the guy to be circumcised than not. Less chance of infections, easier to keep clean. Please get some ice packs for in case of soreness after it's done. And, I'm sure it would feel different, if not better, when he is circumcised. I wish the both of you the best. Take care.
2007-03-02 19:01:33 · answer #2 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... well, I've been with circumcised and uncircumcised men and I can honestly tell you that I could not feel the difference. As far as sex being more pleasurable for a circumcised man? I couldn't tell you much, except that both the circumcised and uncircumcised that I was with seemed to enjoy themselves very much, so...really, it's up to your husband and yourself. Have you asked him why he wants to do it? Maybe he thinks it'll please you better. There is no benefit to being circumcised (health and hygiene benefits are a bunch of bull) so unless he's doing it for religious or aesthetic reasons, tell him not to bother. You love him how he is, right?
2007-03-02 19:13:35 · answer #3 · answered by belltrix86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want him too then tell him OK. There is a difference Uncircumcised men have more feeling this is why the sex last longer. My husband isn't circumcised and well I have been with both and if you like more than 5Min's of sex Tell him no way!
in the end it's between the both of you what he does.
2007-03-02 20:27:14 · answer #4 · answered by Kristal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wonder if by him getting a circumcision this late if it could affect how sensitive it is for him when he is making love. He should probably research that. I have been with both and for the woman it makes no difference. Tell your husband to seriously research how it would feel for him after the fact.
2007-03-02 19:34:36 · answer #5 · answered by Angela T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been with both and never felt the difference.
Why has he decided to now? It apparently is better to have it done from an infection point of view but man it would be swollen and sore for a while since he is older.
I use to prefer the look of circumcised but now it makes no difference my husband is uncircumcised and it makes no difference to me.
2007-03-02 18:58:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been with both no difference. In the long run its health er on the male to be circumcised. As men get older they sometime began to have problem with the foreskin cutting off circulation and getting infections which is not go for you. Let him do it if he wants. It will save you alot of medical bills later on in live.
2007-03-02 18:55:17 · answer #7 · answered by spicy girl 1 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
My husband got circumcised because of a medical issue, it's much nicer, no flab of foreskin, just nice and cleancut, it does feel harder when making love, and is much better for BJ's - however, the suffering involved in going through it as an adult is nothing to undertake lightly...
if you want more info, feel free to e-mail me jennyedoll@yahoo.ca
2007-03-02 18:56:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry...my husband is circumsized...so I wouldn't know...but I have heard the only real reason to be circumsized is for hygiene purposes....but if he keeps the extra layer of skin cleaned well and that isn't a problem for him...I guess I would be interested in knowing what his desire is to change at this stage in his life?...Is it for sexual purposes?...I have heard some men feel a greater sensation sexually...but couldn't tell you for sure on that one. Good luck.
2007-03-02 18:57:16 · answer #9 · answered by ticklemeblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes!!!!! He's gonna be in some PAIN... baby!!!!!
No difference... but there is a spray of topical anethetic.. you might have to get it from the Doc...... GET IT!!!!!
Give him a kiss every day, and tell him how brave he is.
OH MY
You do know that most men can't take pain .... right?????
Make sure that he sees a video of the procedure first.
2007-03-06 15:24:39 · answer #10 · answered by larsgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dude had it done when he 18 and he said that it was the worst thing he's ever done. The pain was excruciating for over 2 months!
2007-03-02 22:35:11 · answer #11 · answered by Tigger91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋