I liked this one person for a long time and everytime I see that person the feelings just rush back. I taught i got over the person but i guess not what can i do
2007-03-02 10:42:33 · 10 answers · asked by Tomas 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have the exact same problem. But if I were you, I'd agree LeeCee
2007-03-02 11:51:18 · answer #1 · answered by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heh, I know how that one goes. And really, there's not much you can do; you can't control how you feel. I don't know what your exact circumstance is, but I have three different things I used to deal with this kind of thing:
Write about it. Sometimes if you get things on paper, you can make better sense of them, seeing the situation more clearly and objectively.
Appreciate the other relationships you have: friends, family, etc. Just keep the feelings for this person from taking over you and leaking into other areas of your life.
Don't try to suppress it too much. It's unhealthy. If you have to think about it, do.
Yeah. It's hard. Good luck.
2007-03-02 19:12:55 · answer #2 · answered by Aisatsana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, stop refering to that person as "special." The best way to move on is to forget the idea that the person was somehow better than anyone else you might meet. Don't put them on a pedistal. If you're not dating anyone else yet, involve yourself in friends, activities, hobbies...fill your life with other things. If you can't avioid seeing that person, just keep them in perspective, tell yourself there are lots of other great people out there for you to get to know, not just that one.
2007-03-02 18:51:42 · answer #3 · answered by Lee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i had this same problem & am still having this prob.well if u have already went out with this person then call them & talk to them & try to eas back in their life. sometimes it may not work but i know this from practice. well just try not to thank about it but try to find someone that is better then that person or find someone mabey u dont like this person yall are just friends. well take that person were ever it is that u alwas see that special person & try to make the special person jelous. then they will fell bad that they are not with u i hope this helps
2007-03-02 18:49:32 · answer #4 · answered by taylor f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to forget that especial someone, but you will forget when you find a new girl/boy. goodluck!
2007-03-02 18:47:58 · answer #5 · answered by sure_whatever_29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are suppose to be with them try talking to them? maybe it can work out? or just date more and be active.
2007-03-02 18:47:19 · answer #6 · answered by sugarpie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to music, go to the mall
2007-03-02 18:47:46 · answer #7 · answered by No one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have that same problem maybe there is a reson why you have that problem. you cant really force your self to forget someone. ={..............
2007-03-02 18:48:28 · answer #8 · answered by Female 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay busy.
2007-03-02 18:46:17 · answer #9 · answered by MSW X2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
avoid them
2007-03-02 18:45:28 · answer #10 · answered by jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋