Didn't have sex with you, what would you think of her?
This happened last night. I have been seeing this great guy for about 3 weeks now and we had a sleep over for the first time last night. :) We were doing some light messing around when he started to try to take it to the next level. Thats when I told him that I was not intending to have sex with him that night simply because I am not ready to go there with him yet....
What would be your reaction? What thoughts would run through your head... Good or bad. But please be honest.
Thanks :)
2007-03-02 10:40:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it wouldn't really bother me, sure there would be a part of me that was frustrated but that is only human nature. And I am sure there was a part of you that was frustrated also. But I think you did the right thing, sometimes it is better to build a base in a relationship before having sex. Because once that bridge is crossed it seems to change some things and you lose a bit of that discovery and newness feelings of meeting someone.
2007-03-02 10:53:00 · answer #1 · answered by tattooed_and_pierced_countryboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally; I'd appreciate a woman that did'nt have sex on the first sleep over, second, or even third. I'd respect your wishes and not even try again, thinking that your a decent woman.
Now if the table were turned; and you came onto me, on the first sleep-over. Then I'd think that you just wanted sex and not really willing to know me.
I surely would'nt want a woman that just wants sex. I'd prefer a LTR.
2007-03-02 10:52:42 · answer #2 · answered by jupiter49801 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These days, I would take that as a sign of intelligence. No matter what guys say, an easy chick is not that great except for just getting laid. One to keep is the one that WONT sleep with you the first time you're in a bed together!!
2007-03-02 10:43:50 · answer #3 · answered by cvjade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say a job well done. You've gained mad respect. Why is she spending the night with me would be a bad question but it's all good. Guys are always testing ladies so he's smiling inside and if he really likes you he wouldn't want to let you go.
2007-03-02 10:54:02 · answer #4 · answered by LT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, i could be bummed that it didnt ensue. That doesnt mean i could be an *** approximately it! Its thoroughly comprehensible if a woman doesnt choose to have intercourse as a results of fact they at the instant are not waiting. i could have stated "thats ok" and we ought to have snuggled as much as observe a movie, or proceed on what we've been doing until now. If i'm into you, i'm no longer in simple terms gonna go away. understand what i mean?
2016-10-02 07:06:53 · answer #5 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I would be surprised but I would understand if we talked about it and the reasoning was sound. It would have been better if the ground rules were identified up front but no harm should have been done if things were talked out.
2007-03-02 10:45:19 · answer #6 · answered by David P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't matter - I waited 3 months for it
2007-03-02 10:44:28 · answer #7 · answered by urrrp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tease!
2007-03-02 10:52:08 · answer #8 · answered by †κiςς[■]mε[■]im[■]εmσ† 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sure he will understand, just make sure its that much more enjoyable if you do decide to take your relationship to that level ;D
2007-03-02 10:45:11 · answer #9 · answered by statsyana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm...well i think 3 weeks is too soon actually...i dont blame you...but do you think you have an answer for my question?
2007-03-02 10:46:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋