Ok, here's my problem...there's this boy in my class and I'm head over heels for him and I let him know that I really like him and he told me that he like me too, so we kept passing little notes back and forth too each other. But one day he told me that he was talking to another girl and didn't want to hurt me, so we didn't talk to each other for a while. During this time apart I guess that he realized that he wanted to be with me and had asked me out, but then the next day he told me that he was confused about somethings and couldn't be with me. Now here's the real problem he keeps on flirting with me and act protective over me as if I was his girlfriend. What should I do or say to him, cause I really want to be with him.
2007-03-02 10:23:06 · 12 answers · asked by Alexisa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This may not be what you want to hear. But i think this guy is using you as his back up. He's probably protective over you because he wants other guys to streer clear of you. What I mean by that is he doesn't want other guys to get any ideas of being with you. If he's acting like he likes you one min. and the next saying he's confused and about being with you then he isn't something that you should be worried about. He just seems to be a player and your being played. Find another guy that wants to be with you and doesn't put you on hold.
2007-03-02 10:32:46 · answer #1 · answered by Alli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who is this other girl? Can somebody find out how serious she thinks they are? If he admits he has a girlfriend and keeps on flirting with you, then I doubt he would treat you any different. A leopard can't change its spots. A cheater is a cheater. Move on and pass a note to another boy in another class. A good fisherwoman never quits after only one cast of the bait. :) ohoh.. a sudden thought.... maybe he is scared of COMMITTMENT.. eeeeek! he don't want to be tied to one woman. (they learn this so young) Good luck.
2007-03-02 18:38:18 · answer #2 · answered by ricketyoldbat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is waiting for the other girl, she is #1 to him and if she does not work out you can then play you are #2. Step back and don't set yourself up for that game. He needs to decide now and he can not. Baby girl let this one go, he will realize what he is missing when it is to too late. And if he does choose you make him earn your trust hold him accountable, because if you let him stray he will go back to #1 and try to have you both. Be careful
2007-03-02 18:42:27 · answer #3 · answered by Quest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to act like you dont like him... be friendly, thats fine but dont be overly friendly or flirtatious.. he will realize that he either really likes you or just get tired of the games and be honest with you.. He probably doensnt know what he wants.. guys dont, neither do we really.. but if he is going to play games and act like he likes you but not as a boyfriend then he's just not worth it anyway.. you deserve someone who likes you all the time for you!!
2007-03-02 18:29:43 · answer #4 · answered by callmecouture 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound desperate and most guys hate desperate. Why is it that when a clear message is given (in this case given and taken and given and taken), we ignore it and pretend that there's something else? Why do we have to feel Like psychoanalysis is needed for every move and look, step back, take a deep breath and move forward- he'll either follow or fall behind. NEVER, I REPEAT, NEVER, BECOME SO DESPERATE THAT YOU'LL SELL YOUR SOUL TO BE WITH SOMEONE!
2007-03-02 18:29:35 · answer #5 · answered by Wisdom??? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just ask him whats going on! Tell him all the things you have told us, like that he is confusing you and treating you liki a girlfreind! Just get to the point!
2007-03-02 18:28:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! I have gone thought something like this. Just be like HEY! U act like we are dating and we are not. So make up your mind. LOL Jk Be like you are nice and you act to me as if we are dating. Are we? becasue I reall like you and would love to go out with you. Hope everything works out!
2007-03-02 18:28:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if you are ready to hear a no if you force him to make a choice. if you do he might say no. he also might say yes. ask yourself if you want to wait for someone who can't choose and also ask yourself if and how you are going to handle a possible no. (think of the yes too of course) then make your choice. it has to be your choice.
2007-03-02 18:29:05 · answer #8 · answered by freebird31wizard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok..he doesn't want to be with u? But then is very overprotected of you?
He likes you, he just doesn't want to be with u....he is trying to make it look like he alreay going out with u...w/o knowing he is..get what i am saying? If u think about it u'll get it...
2007-03-02 18:29:01 · answer #9 · answered by Toni S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that if he likes you, then ull date, but if not, then dont get all protective over you. Tell him to get some balls and stick with one girl.
2007-03-02 18:28:54 · answer #10 · answered by Mallenater 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋