Is there a possibility we will get back together?

Question

Is there a possibility of getting back with my ex?
My ex broke up with me 3 months ago because I hurt her. We didn't talk for a month and then began hanging out again. It was friendly at first as she said she only wants to be friends. Then it went to basically hanging out 24/7. She was saying she loves me and would marry me and it looked like things were getting better. Then suddenly she says we need to stop hanging out because she has become dependant on me again and she wants to get used to being alone. She doesn't know I know about another guy she was seeing, but broke it off with him. I have look passed it because all I want to do is be her bf again. I love her and would do anything to get her back. I mean she is back in my life and we are like best friends, but I want to know if it will ever be more than that. Sometimes I feel like there's hope and other times I don't. We hang out a lot and talk a lot still. We still do things that couples do and even double date here and there.

Answer 1

Give her space, she is right, she cannot be dependant on you, and chances are you hurt her so bad, that she doesn't want to go through that all again. Tell her that things would be different, and if she does take you back, make sure you live up to that promise, there is still a chance, becaus eth elove is still there, it is all up to her, and if she is willing to take you back.

Answer 2

There is always a possibility. Have you talked to her and asked her if she would try trusting you again? You didn't say what you did, but most of us have "non-negotiables" - those things that are not acceptable at all in a relationship. If you did one of those things, you will have a hard time getting back.

Just talk to her about the possibility. If you really want her, be ready and willing to take a long time.

Answer 3

You guys are poster children for co-dependence, arent't you?