my father commited suicide in october last year. the main reason why he did it was the woman he was with played with his heart strings and cheated on him quite a few times. she was 32 and my father was 57. now after 5 months she is still causing problems with us like sending the cib around with a search warrent telling them that we have stuff of hers when she had already collected it all. it has brought everything back up again and i am having trouble dealing with it all.
2007-03-02 10:04:15 · 3 answers · asked by Shaz 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Its just going to take time to get over your Father taking his on life. He certainly wasn't thinking clearly when he did.
As for the woman that was in his life, make sure she has every last thing that belongs to her and make sure that she doesn't have something of your Dads that belongs to you.
That said, then you are done with her and tell her so.
Put it all behind you and move forward, the past is just that, the past.~~~ Close that chapter of your life and move on.
My cousin is going through this same type of thing now. Her ill son was killed in mid Dec. in a motorcycle accident and he lived with her because his wife couldn't put up with his chrons disease and she had another man in her life and the rest of that story is similar to yours. Have a good life, God is good.~~~Jill
2007-03-02 11:45:03 · answer #1 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend commited suicide from a similar problem, you need to get a counselor or something. you can also call a local help line just to have someone to talk to.
2007-03-02 10:17:33 · answer #2 · answered by chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to know the cliche the life goes on......now you are the one who should learn from your fathers mistake don't ever think to do something like that when someone brakes your heart
2007-03-02 10:12:30 · answer #3 · answered by malena 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋