2007-03-02 10:02:15 · 48 answers · asked by Green Man 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
hahaha! there is no polite way to do it....
we were in a clothing store one time and this big girl was trying on the puffy jacket..and it didnt fit her...she looked over at her friend and said, "they over stuffed it"...lol i was laughing so hard...
she was the one that was over stuffed!
2007-03-02 10:12:15 · answer #1 · answered by dotdotdot 5 · 1⤊ 4⤋
Even though being fat itself is not sexy. Some men find fat women appealing. Also, many women (fat,skinny and in-between) use revealing clothing as an "I'm available" sign. There may be a war against obesity going on in America, but fat women have a right to equal access to sexual attention as any other woman. If our exposed jiggly bodies offend you, sorry, turn your head and look away.
2007-03-02 10:13:28 · answer #2 · answered by MsE 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you get appointed as Fashion and Appearance Czar for the United States. You are entitled to have an opinion about anyone's appearance, but you have no business providing unsolicited opinions and interfering in someone's life like this.
Let me ask a question: What possible reason would you have for doing something like that? And don't tell me it's out of concern or kindness. We all have flaws; they're not always on the surface. Whatever yours is -- insecurity, acne, bad grades, poor self-worth, etc. -- I suspect you're well aware of it and don't need others bringing it to your attention, even in a "friendly" way.
I knew people in high school who were really cool and superior, and they made me feel bad with their criticisms masquerading as "friendly" comments. Years later, I'm fine, but many of them let their preoccupations with things like how other people look limit their lives.
2007-03-02 10:24:04 · answer #3 · answered by L G 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you talking about a particular person or just natural public? because if you're suggesting random people then i don't necessarily think they wear such revealing clothes.
just don't go out in PubLiC.xo
2007-03-02 10:05:40 · answer #4 · answered by ♥H] ッ 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
before I answer I want to get out in the open that I am a straight Black male
ok now for my answer
If you are offended by fat girls wearing revealing clothing then....
Don't look
like my wife always says there is someone for everyone
If fat and nasty isn't for you then look for something else.
2007-03-02 10:19:36 · answer #5 · answered by Çlïgér4™ ♂ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the first answer, but wear lots of padding, and don't be in a position where they could sit on you!
My problem is that I can't find clothes in my size b/c the fat chicks have bought them all up!
They really should cover up, out of respect for themselves more than anything.
2007-03-02 10:10:47 · answer #6 · answered by margarita 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is revoltingly impolite to notice what a woman is wearing.
You are limited in your comments to "You look well today" or "You don't look so well today."
Anything more specific means that you are a) attempting to remove whatever clothing piece you mention or b) you want to buy the lady a replacement for whatever item of apparel has caught your fancy.
Remember that . . . .
2007-03-02 10:07:41 · answer #7 · answered by nora22000 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you had a life..you wouldn`t have the time for such judgements...get a grip, Dude...and don`t hate.
2007-03-02 10:12:31 · answer #8 · answered by heather h 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there's a polite way. Just try telling them and see what happens to you. You could very well end up on news at eleven if you say something like that to the ladies. Good luck ;)
2007-03-02 10:05:45 · answer #9 · answered by C L 5 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Learn some manners. Pathetic question.
2007-03-02 12:24:23 · answer #10 · answered by Pacifica 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just pinch the fat hanging out on the sides as you walk by
2007-03-02 10:07:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋