i got this girls number from school (im in college) so i hit her up yesterday and she sounded like she wanted to hang out but i was hangin out with my friends n i told her i'd call her back after i got done and that we should hang out ...but i ended up gettin stuck with my friends yesterday n i forgot to call her back...so today after class i hit her up and asked her what she was doing ..she said she was doin somthing for her aunt n after that she said she had to go n she'll call me back cuz he had to pickup her sister from school...its been an hour now...n i wanted to ask her to go out tonight...but i dont want to call becuz she said shed call back...should i wait till tonite and call her up? or should i screw it and go out to the club with some friends?
2007-03-02 09:56:37 · 22 answers · asked by zakattak 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
umm wait more than 2 hours... dont seem desperate!
2007-03-02 10:03:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
text her instead of calling. say u wanted to know if she would want to go out to a club tonight and then leave the ball in her court
texting isn't as rude as calling b/c if she was in middle of doing something she could just text u back with a yes or no and it only takes like a min...but if u call her then u feel obligated to stop what u r doing and have a brief conversation which can be rude if her aunt or whoever is in the room. So since she said she would call u back b/c she was busy, calling her in like an hour after would still be extremely rude and annoying. However a text would be nice b/c its alrdy like 5 CST so if she wanted to go this gives her plenty of time to get ready.
Remember always give her time enough to get ready lol very important!!!!
2007-03-02 18:00:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait for a phone call. Just go with your friends and try to meet other girls when you are at the club. Give your number out to as many girls as you can. Giving out numbers is like a spider spreading his web out. The more numbers you give, sooner or later, some girl is going to get caught in your web. Never wait for a phone call.
2007-03-02 18:00:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her you and some friends are goin out, and if she and her friends wanted to go clubhbing. If that doesent sound like an option, just call her and tell her your feeling her and if she wants to go out tonight!
but if its only been an hour, then wait another hour and then call her. go out wit friends tonite, get some strange, and set up something for the weekend.
2007-03-02 18:01:48 · answer #4 · answered by Miklo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
call and actually invite her somewhere and let her respond to that stop leaving the door open for her to get out. Ask her out -- a specific place and time and then go from there. Women like the fact that you can plan a date.
2007-03-02 18:02:27 · answer #5 · answered by Quest 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait. I mean, women hate it when they feel like men are obsessed with them or are clinging to them too much (not saying you are), they also like a little attention. So wait a little longer and see if she calls. I f she doesnt then just go hang out with your friends. Have fun!
2007-03-02 18:04:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her before she makes any other plans with her friend.. or u can text her.. but i think if u ganna call her it will be better..
lie to her n tell her that there is a big party goin on some where (some where u know) but it should be a nice place.. its better to call her.. that's my opinion
oh.. n one more thing.. tell her that u had some thing to do yesturday that's why u couldnt call her.. do some thing man.. but dont let her go away.. but call her only one time, ur the man.. LoOoOoL
2007-03-02 18:01:16 · answer #7 · answered by madeniggaz83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You called her....don't call her again, she'll think your desparate or something. Give her the chance to call you back. She may be holding a grudge since you didn't call last night as you said you would. I'd wait til Sunday, if you haven't heard from her then call her. I wouldn't even apologize for not calling as you said you would or bring it up....sometimes better to just keep ,moving forward. If she's not over it, then she'll bring it up.
2007-03-02 18:01:39 · answer #8 · answered by babeebluez73 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go head call her back and leave a message with the time you like to take her out. Then if she does not return your call and confirm. Forget it! Go out with some else.
2007-03-02 18:02:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, wait for her to call! If she doesnt call at all, go hang with friends. Maybe call her tomorrow. The key is to not look desperate.
2007-03-02 18:02:16 · answer #10 · answered by F. C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a little longer. If she doesn't call back, just leave. You have better things to do than wait for a phone call all night.
2007-03-02 18:00:15 · answer #11 · answered by Swini 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋