we me my boyfriennd and son have just moved to leicester from up north he wasnt really in to the moved but he came anyway so i could live near to my mum and dad who i moved away from to be with my boyfriend well we have come up for the weekend to visit his family and friends and he has gone out leaving me sat with his mum and dad that i dont get on with that much since the move as they blaime me for us moving he has gone out on the town and says im being out of order being in a mood with him?? whhat do you think we are both 25 with a 3 year old and have been together since we were 18 years old
help???
2007-03-02 09:53:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well im sorry im pissed off and stressed!!!!!
2007-03-02 10:01:31 · update #1
just sent him a msg to tell him i was pissed off with him and he said that he dont give a **** well thats it he can now get fucked!!!!! im off home in the morning
2007-03-02 10:21:28 · update #2
Kelly, believe me you arenot out of order! You didnt force him to move and you obviously moved coz you needed your family's support. I think you need to explain to your "bloke" that his actions are verging on mental abuse. If I was left with my in laws while my lady was on the lash I would go radio rental. Stick to your guns girl.Good luck. Andy. x
2007-03-02 10:11:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm not sure, but It sounds like there is problems in other areas. Two people in love will live in a damp cave, just to be with each other. I think that he is being a little selfish. Look at the other areas, as to why you wanted to move back near your parents. He should have taken you out with him. He is not playing fair with you.
Good luck
2007-03-02 18:06:30 · answer #2 · answered by ambertottie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can see it from both sides, you move away from the area, he wants a night out with his friends whats wrong with that?
Then theres you sat with his parents feeling awkward as you know they are niot that keen on you, obviously he knows this so how could he go out and leave you there, knowing how miserable you are going to be.
Think of it this way, it's only for the weekend, then you get him all to yourself again, kiss and make up, it's not worth getting moody over, his parents are upset as you have taken their little boy, but remember...you got the man in the end
2007-03-02 18:03:05 · answer #3 · answered by zeldieuk2002 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is throwing his toys out of the pram a bir. maybe he feels like he misses living in his hometown and is out trying to catch up with his friends. he is probably trying to do your head in a bit and he probably knows he is being selfish. i think when he comes homw you should not have a go at him but geive him some space. he will be suprised because he will be expecing a cold shoulder and he will probably feel bad. I don't think it is anything more serious than him throwing his weight about a bit.
2007-03-02 18:01:18 · answer #4 · answered by Louise H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend is a cheeky git...if he couldnt stay in u should have gone out together and let the grandparents get on with some bonding time...although if yr up too visit he should have stayed in..put yr foot down love!!!..why should you spend the weekend feeling out of place!!..edit..u must be on the computer tho...so if they have a drink ahve 1 with them and if not offer to brew up..ask them how theyre doing say u like the way theyve decorated ..trimmed the garden etc to break the ice they might open up a little..flatter them say uve missed the area..and them.. or u know yr partner has...and when he gets in i hope u make his ears bleed!!!
2007-03-02 18:00:41 · answer #5 · answered by lancashiretasty 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ah babe, thats not fair. He should have taken you out too and let his mum and dad spend quality time with thier grandchild. He probably just didnt think. Dont fall out over it but tell him how you feel. Good luck!
2007-03-02 18:16:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it too much, he's out with his pals getting drunk and remembering old times. A guy needs that sometimes!
But remind him you have a life together and he needs to think about you.
Maybe you should go out and let him know you have a life also!
Its a good release to meet your old friends again, why not get him to take you out with his mates, they've got girlfriends aswell...
2007-03-02 18:08:38 · answer #7 · answered by declanwoz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its him who is out of order...you both visited his parents and you both have a son together..he should not have went out without you..leaving you alone with his parents...could he not have asked them to watch your son while you both went out?..hes in the wrong ...if you were at home im sure you wouldnt have bothered...but considering you are away from home...you should have went out as a couple..x
2007-03-02 18:04:31 · answer #8 · answered by amri 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey thats blokes for you, either ignore or talk choice is simple, though carrying it out is tougher!
go for the talk but keep it casual or he'll feel threatened, men are easy confused and he prob hasnt even noticed how you feel
2007-03-02 18:00:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should've taken you out aswell and let the gandparents spend some time with your son yes he is being selfish
what a plank he is
2007-03-02 17:59:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋