Ok well i totally fell for this guy, "A" as soon as i first meet him and, he liked me too. We went out for a bit, split up because he like someone else. His friend asked me out, i said yes. The guy who i like in the first place "A" starts apologizing to me and says that he is sorry for dumping me. My boyfriend and i split. I go back out with "A" it lasted for a couple of months, and i had never loved anyone as much as i liked him. Then he started Talking rubbish about me behind me back. He doesnt love me anymore at all. But for some reason, I still love "A"... :O i mean i dont even really like the way he looks, i suppose he is ok, and his personality is quite funny but he isnt very nice. WHY CANT I GET OVER HIM its been like 5 months since we split up.!!
2007-03-02 09:50:43 · 7 answers · asked by XxXToMuchToThinkAboutXxX 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We fall in love for different reasons, Most of the time we find the wrong ones. It sounds like to me that he was all wrong for you. It still hurts im sure. But your better off. You will find your one true love someday until then have fun. But try to stay away from this guy. He sounds a little possesive, If he wanted you after you started dating on of his friends. Try dating some one he doesn't know.
2007-03-02 10:00:52 · answer #1 · answered by Kimmie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know, love is so freaking strange, when strikes you no matter what kind the person is, you will fall inlove. Its hard and it takes a while to recover or forget the feelings for him. All you have to do is go on a date with lots of guys, get busy or be productive, later on you will forget the feelings for him, trust me, i've been there, it drives you crazy. Just keep yourself busy with something. goodluck!
2007-03-02 17:57:19 · answer #2 · answered by sure_whatever_29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't tell you why, but I was in the same position, this person got deep into my head, making it really hard to move on. Until I realized, that they didn't care about me or my feelings. People like that only care about themselves. You will get over it, I promise.
2007-03-02 17:57:14 · answer #3 · answered by missy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell you the truth you need to get over it nothing is worse than denial your been over for 5 months better ideas is to keep things how they are calm and unweird between the 2 of you
2007-03-02 17:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by luby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's because you miss having a BF. You should do something that takes a lot of your time to take your mind off of guy "A"
2007-03-02 17:55:27 · answer #5 · answered by Swini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's hard because i kinda went through the same thing...TALK TO OTHER GUYS!!!it may be hard at first becaus you really don't want to but try it anyway ...try not think about him as often as you normally would...
2007-03-02 17:55:29 · answer #6 · answered by jus-help-me-out -here 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me u'll get over him,just think of the bad things he has done to u.
2007-03-02 17:54:54 · answer #7 · answered by april 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋