Ok here is the story.. I know this boy and we have gotten really close and I think he likes me a little too but im not going to make conclusions.. but i have a really close friend who is like obsessed with him.. and i feel bad because she always talks to me about him..
But its been a long while since i have like someone and this Boy is amazing.. Funny..Fine.. you name it! So please help idk wat to do.. Should i tell my friend i like him too.. should i ask him if he likes me.. should i tell my friends to ask him if he likes me.. HELP
2007-03-02 09:47:59 · 14 answers · asked by Me! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh i also forgot to say that since i am so close with the boy he told me he dont like my friend at alll
2007-03-02 09:59:32 · update #1
A really good friend wouldn't be mad at her friend for going out with her crush. And besides, you should give this boy what he really wants, which is u!!!! GO FOR HIM!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-02 09:51:40 · answer #1 · answered by yoyoyowatup3579 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is always thye best policy. You may want to consider being honest with your friend and tell her your feeling about the boy and ask her exactly how interested she is with him. After you both discuess the situation, then an answer will come. Alos, make sure your best friend know just how much you like hyer and that it took a lot of courage to talk to her about this. If she is a real friend, she will appreciate you.
2007-03-02 17:56:14 · answer #2 · answered by dogbite1562 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this is what you should do. You should go up to your friend and tell her that you like the same guy that she likes. If she gets mad at you for it then she isn't reallly a good friend to you. The you need to go up to the guy that you like,and tell him that you like him. Or you can ask him out. Don't have someone else do it for you. That is just telling him that you are afraid t confront him yourself. Then you might not be able to get a chance with him. So do what your heart tells you.
2007-03-02 17:55:54 · answer #3 · answered by Briann M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats wierd cuz i have the EXACT same problem. Here's what i decided to do. Im going to wait cuz i don't want to jump to conclusions either. If i find out the guy likes me i would talk to my friend about it and see how she feels. Im not risking losing my good friend over a guy. but hes really hot =] haha
good luck!
Hope i helped
2007-03-02 17:53:52 · answer #4 · answered by [[<3]] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I would find out if likes you, then i would tell my friend that i really like this guy. I would also tell her that I feel bad about it and was wondering she would be mad if I took action as in ask him out.
2007-03-02 17:53:23 · answer #5 · answered by Steph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i am not an expert but i have the same problem and i have stepped aside and i am going to let my friend have him because she claimed him first so that's what i think you should do but if she does not like him anymore for whatever reason and you still like him i think you should go for him but you might wanna ask your friend first
2007-03-02 17:57:48 · answer #6 · answered by amanda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, who liked this guy first? I think if your best friend liked him before you did, she should get him. But if you liked him first you should get him. I am sort of in the same situation.
2007-03-02 17:53:00 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what. My money is on the two of you taking turns. Inside of 3 years you both have him. Unless you cherish your friendship more.
2007-03-02 17:53:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress demurely and the situation will resolve itself.
2007-03-02 17:52:39 · answer #9 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your friend...me and my friends like the same guy all the time and it never hurt us....ok well hope i helped! bye!
2007-03-02 17:51:20 · answer #10 · answered by blueyedtrumpet18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋