I am in a 5 yr relationship, but I also have feelings for someone I met at the same time I decided to make it official with my now boyfriend of 5 yrs. My boyfriend is very meticulous and fights for the sillyest crap, although I do believe I love him, this other guy accepts me the way I am and is dying to see me and hold me, the problem is he and my boyfriend know one another and have gone out together!!! I didn't know this until after I let go of the other guy and hooked up with my boyfriend, I associate with my "FRIEND" and he drives me crazy, I really miss him. But I love my guy... I can't go out to clubs, or to have drinks, he won't even put me on his motorcycle in the summer like he used to when we first starting messing around, and now thatn I am his lady, he has taken alot of the things we once did away from me, which I feel is pushing me towards my FRIEND...Help...I don't know what to do!!! Should I stay with my Boyfriend or let go and give the sweet one a chance at my love?
2007-03-02 09:42:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are having trouble now and it seems like its getting worse then put some space between the two of you. If it was meant to be then you will get back together again. If not then you won't. Don't plan on it getting better. I've been at it for 30 years and I wasted my whole life. If you're not sure then get out now. Sit and talk with your boyfriend and see what happens. I would take a break from him.
2007-03-02 10:05:48 · answer #1 · answered by Me2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend doesn't sound worthy of you because he doesn't treat you very well.You deserve to be happy and even though you love your boyfriend that does not mean you have to be together. If you can gather enough courage talk things through with your boyfriend however I would, if it was me, end the current relationship and go to the one who would make happy . But that's me who doesn't know your boyfriend or you. Do what you think is best .
2007-03-02 17:57:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO, if the 2 guys know each other. No good. Guys stick together you will be a tramp before they get thru with you. After 5 years you need to set down and talk with him and explain how you fill. Your other friend might have discuss you with him. All that time and no marriage, promise ring, etc. It is always crazy at first you should realize after being with 5 years so beware. It is plenty of guys that will care for you that neither of them know.
2007-03-02 17:51:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
it seems your not sure of thing but remeber this you have a 5 yr relationship VS. a guy you just met ..... also remember that every relationship starts beautiful color roses and then turns into the real drama your going through with your 5 yr relationship guy so it really dosent matter what guy its with the outcome is the same
you have to ask yourself if your willing to give up 5 yrs to end up the same way you are now with this other guy
2007-03-02 17:48:49 · answer #4 · answered by luby 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You did say "you beileve you love him" which makes me think that you really don't. No guy should ever tell you what to do, or say or fight with you costantly. If your "Friend' makes you happy then go be happy with him. Relationships are never certain bcs even tho you been there 5 years he doesn't treat you right. Whatever you do, Good Luck!
2007-03-02 17:53:19 · answer #5 · answered by ¤My Goodies¤ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend is making the package look good to his friend (which makes him want a piece of you too.)
however-- what your FRIEND fails to realize is that the good always comes with a little bad.
Dont think for an instant it could be all great, and then some wien you leave your boyfriend, for Mr.Perfect.
But then again-- if you really loved your boyfriend, like you say-- you wouldnt even think of your friend in "that way"
2007-03-02 17:46:59 · answer #6 · answered by jay 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You said something very interesting....You said you believe you love your boyfriend then changed it to you do love him. I think you were right the first time when you said you believe you do love him. You are wanting this other guy more and more, and maybe from what you said your boyfriend may not be right for you. You may want to look at other options. It's ultimately your decision.
2007-03-02 17:47:01 · answer #7 · answered by alwyzn2somthn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say that you let go because if the spark and all the fun stuff is gone then maybe try someting else. And if you go for your "friend" and it doesnt work out then who is to say that you cant get back with your boyfriend
2007-03-02 17:46:30 · answer #8 · answered by Alex 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend should dump your cheating rear end, and the other guy should be smart enough to have nothing to do with you.
You are the type of girl that give the female race a bad reputation.
2007-03-02 17:47:21 · answer #9 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
So Want you just go riding
2007-03-02 17:47:12 · answer #10 · answered by Marcella A 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋