DOESNT WANT ME TO GO TO THAT SPECIFIC CLUB THAT HE'S IN...I JUST HAD AN ARGUMENT BECAUSE HE SAYS HE DOESNT WANT ME TO GO TO THE SAME CLUB HE'S IN, EVEN THOUGH I TELL HIM IM NOT GOING TO HARRASS HIM AT THE CLUB EVEN IF IM THERE AND HES THERE...I TOLD HIM I DONT CARE...BUT HE STILL INSISTED THAT IF ATTEMPT TO GO TO THE SAME CLUB HE'S IN THAT HE DOESNT WANT NOTHING TO DO WITH ME...I ASKED HIM WHY? HE SAYS BECAUSE HE DOESNT WANT TO WORRY ABOUT ME BEING THERE AND BECAUSE HE'S WITH HIS BOYS AND THAT HE DOESNT WANT ME TO RUIN HIS WEEKEND...I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO I MEAN I CARE ABOUT HIM ALOT AND I DONT WANT TO BREAK UP WITH HIM FOR NOTHING BUT HE'S GIVING ME AN ULTIMATUM BECAUSE I MIGHT GO TO THE SAME CLUB AS HIM WHAT KIND OF THING IS THAT..WHAT SHOULD I DO? AND SHOULD I WORRY THAT THE REASON HE DOESNT WANT ME TO GO IS B-CUZ HE'S HIDING SOMETHING..I HEARD THINGS WHILE HE WAS IN THE CLUBS B-4 ABOUT HIM TALKING TO OTHER GIRLS BUT I THINK THAT MIGHT BE THE REASON, IM NOT SURE...PLEASE HELP ME !!
2007-03-02 09:23:13 · 5 answers · asked by dat_sweetmami 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK hun. This is a HUGE sign that he's with other girls behind your back. He's basically telling you by saying he doesn't want you at that club. He doesn't want to get caught in the act. You need to get out of this relationship and FAST! He's trying to control you and he's cheating on you. BIG RED FLAGS! Go to the club that you want to go to. Have fun with your friend and enjoy her birthday. Don't pay any attention to him if you see him. If you see him with another girl, don't be surprised. If he says something to you, you should say "this is your sign that its over." and go have a blast. You deserve someone so much better.
I know you care about him, but this isn't going to get any better. Leave him. Live your own life. You will find a better guy!
Good luck!
-Brit
2007-03-02 09:41:25 · answer #1 · answered by Positively Pink 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are so naive and if you don't know what that means, it means you are clueless. If you don't break up with him than you deserve all of the cheating or whatever he is doing at that club. Talk about controlling. He is the master and you are the slave. This is why girls will never run the country because they can't even see what is happening right in front of their face. I hope you are 13 and have a good reason to be this dumb.
2007-03-02 09:28:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesnt want you in the same club its because he is screwin around and doesnt want you to catch him..go anyways and confront his punk *** in front of whoever he is there with...if you live together make sure you take your stuff out of the house before you go!!!
2007-03-02 09:27:15 · answer #3 · answered by Soon2BMrsCarlson 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Im not trying to be mean, but your boyfreind is probally cheating on you.
No man wouldn't want his gf to not go with him, unless his a playa. If other girls found he had a gf, it would ruin his reputation. If i had a gf and i truly lov'd her, i would want her to go whever she feels comfortable.
You could just say your going anyways. If he says some lame excuse again or says his not going than, then his cheating.
If not cheating, he could be worried about you maybe... you being fallin to another guy maybe....
2007-03-02 09:39:03 · answer #4 · answered by JWKoh 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say go just to see what he is up to. If you don't mind him talking to other girls, stay with him, but it sounds like he wants to be single. Guys like to have their cake and eat it too. Don't let him. You are probably too good to him and he doesn't deserve you. It sounds like you are better off being on your own. Don't let any guy make bad or insecure about yourself!!!
2007-03-02 09:29:34 · answer #5 · answered by luvmykids 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋